Is it a problem when u sometimes try to make your partner get exited and she, by no means succeeds?

Question

By almost the third time I tried to make love with my wife, but it was not possible because, although I tried by all possible means, except the oral one, to get her exited she couldn´t succeed at any rate. Of couse, it doen´t happen always, but it´s true, the few times that that happened,let me frustrated. Let me know pls, it that normal? Is that a sighnal of the beginning of a sickness? What should I do the next time it happens and or how to overcome it?

Answer 1

YES

Answer 2

Just sometimes women cannot be turned on......its not a sign of sickness because they dont, it just happens OK!!! .....cripes she isn't a machine that you wind up and is expected to move automatically!!! jeez!  

Answer 3

This is quite normal & natural. Women may take longer time to get turned on. Living conditions, diet, financial status, etc. do count a lot. To get aroused, a women should be quite relaxed & willing. A change from routine life, a trip abroad, may help. Oral s*x is certainly a great stimulator. You have to have patience and spent enough time, may be hours together. Try all these and you will get success provided she is young and not too old......

Answer 4

Women are emotionally tuned.  You need to tune in to her emotionally and not have emotional disturbances between you.  However,  Oral will probably be the only way she will enjoy to org... until you get a vibrator to use on her.  My wife just conld not understand why I needed a vibrator but she was wearing my toung off.  But since I got the machine she doesn't want oral any more.  You will find a way to please her and she will be glad you did.