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Is it acceptable a woman first asks a man out?

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  1. It depends on the situation, of course, but I don't see anything wrong with it. Keep it light and friendly though, like "Hey, I'm going to see (blah, blah) movie on Monday. Would you like to join me? We can go Dutch." At least it'll be an ice breaker and maybe you'll make a new friend. Good luck. ♥ ∞


  2. Sure, I do it all the time.  But I generally know the man a little bit.  How?   Just like this:  Hey, Jimmy  - or whatever his name may be - wanna go grab some dinner at that new sushi place tonight?  

    But you have to know what you two have in common, otherwise he may very well reject you.  I'd never ask a guy to an opera unless I knew he loved Cosi Fan Tutte or whatever.  Use common sense, that's all.  You're just trying to get to know the guy.  Also, the movies, for me - big no- no.  I hate them with a passion.  In high school, maybe, when you know, he'd put his arm around you, maybe kiss you... that was the time and place for that.  If I had to take a guy I really like to the movies now, I'd probably get kicked out for indecent behavior.

  3. It's against the laws of nature and if you do it your head will spin 360 degrees, you'll start convulsing and hurling abuse at anyone who will listen - in backwards latin.

    Probably best not to do it.

  4. Yes it is.

  5. I don't see why it wouldn't be acceptable.  

  6. Yes it is and if the guy does have a problem with it then you know not to waste your time with him

    I would have no problem with a women asking me out

    Tell him you are going out to so and so to get some food and was wondering if you were keen to come or not

    Or you can tell him that you are looking at getting some new clothes at the local mall one weekend and you need a guys advice on what you think suits you (even though most women dont need help picking clothes it helps to engage him into a date)

  7. Yeah, it's fine. I've done it before, and it worked out well.

  8. Only if she is very attractive. I must admit that I object to having women I don't find attractive email me or ask me to dance with her. If I agree to interact with a girl I'm not attracted to, I'll just be leading her on.

    It's really a shame that so many men cannot handle a woman's rejection, so they avoid approaching women altogether.  

  9. it is acceptable....

    personally that man would have to be...."oh my God-  SUPER CUTE!" you know, like ideal- physically of course.

    i have never never done t*t before. As of right now i only know of one person that deserves that, still i can hold back....lol.

    lets just say, i haven't come across that person yet. i hope i never do.

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