Is it acceptable for a woman not to kiss her husband (in the lips) because he won't/can't quit smoking?

Question

Even after a shower and a toothbrush??? Mapait daw kasi...

Answer 1

Forget kissing.. I would kick my husband out of the house and all his belongings if he was a smoker. I have three kids and there is no way he is going to ruin their lungs and mine. He can go live at his mothers if he wants to be a big baby

Answer 2

wow everyone can be so high and mighty

id kiss my man if he smoked or chewed or had morning breath.... thats love

Answer 3

Sounds controlling to me...

If you are a smoker - chances are that you smoked BEFORE you guys got married so, I have to draw the conclusion that she wants you to quit and is controlling you by eliminating intimacy...

(Which is WRONG)

Answer 4

Thats bullsh*t, everyone CAN quit, its hard but it can be done. I stopped kissing my BF untill he quit. He's been off cigs for 2 years now! :)

Who wants to kiss a dirty chemical ashtray? You know cigs have rat poision in them as well as other c**p like that, right?

Answer 5

Sure, but it is also acceptable for a husband to divorce a chick that won't kiss him.

Answer 6

Yes.

Answer 7

the smell of smoke just NEVER goes away.

stop smoking...if u love her.

Answer 8

yep that is nasty  

Answer 9

The bible says that I woman shouldn't deny her husband.....but the husband should take her feeling about smoking into consideration (smoking isn't health anyway...)

Answer 10

no it isnt

if he smoked before you married him, then HE!! no

if he smokes outside and not around you

AND he takes a shower and brushes his teeth before kissing

then WTF is the problem?????

Answer 11

Yes it is, cos if it makes her gag, she definitely should never have to kiss him, unless he doesn't mind vomit in his mouth.

Answer 12

You can always stop smoking.

You cant, however, if you have the mind set that YOU dont want to.

Its never up to anyone else.

Its always up to you.

AND.

I wouldnt kiss my gf if she smoked.

I think smokins gross.

She has every right.

Answer 13

Why won't you or can't you quit?

Seriously, if you want to quit without all the hassle of patches you need to get Chantix. It's that pill.

this pill WORKS. I'm dead serious. I took it and with in 2 weeks, I didn't even want to touch a cigarette. You really loose all craving for it. But you need to keep up with it for about 6 months to be completely healed. ANd you can't cheat in between, and the beauty of it is, even if you DO cheat, you won't find it satisfying AT ALL, it won't do anything for you, and you'll actually find it pretty discusting.

I'm not trying to sound like an Ad for for this pill, but you have to choose a woman's love or smoking. If you choose smoking over this woman, You need more than just a pill. Give it a try. Medical Insurance will pay for it.

Answer 14

h**l yeah . i tried kissing a guy who smokes just for out of curiousity , this was years ago, trust me that s#it stinks and taste weird .  

Answer 15

that's not a smart way to make him stop smoking  

Answer 16

I wouldn't want to kiss someone who smokes. Thankfully my husband doesn't smoke, but if he did, no kissing till he stopped. I don't kiss him when he hasn't shaved cause I don't like the feeling of sandpaper. But smoke is a lot worse.

Answer 17

You're lucky she even continues to live in the same household with ya, friend...

Answer 18

I think it would be like kissing an ashtray.

I would pass too....sorry.

Answer 19

If that's disgusting to her, why wouldn't you just quit?

Answer 20

No. That is ridiculous if it was that important that her husband was a nonsmoker she wouldn't have married a smoker in the first place. I'm sick of hearing about these women that use affection and s*x as some sort of punishment reward system. It disgusts me.

Answer 21

No, especially if he was smoking when she married him.  That's a bunch of c**p!

Answer 22

Only you can change her mind by given up smoking, if her kisses are that important to you then do some thing about it...........

Answer 23

although i don't condone forcing kisses OR smoking, i would be of the mind that the first time she kissed you, you smoked, right? and the second? third?  she made the choice initially...maybe instead of cutting you off cause you smoke she should help you quit..."support" i think they call it...

Answer 24

It is probably just an excuse to not kiss you if brush and she still wont kiss you. You may have a deeper problem on your hands.

Maybe not..

Answer 25

yeah if the taste makes her ill it is, you cant forse someone to do something that makes them gag, better yet, why would you want to kiss your beloved when you know she dont enjoy it

and anyone can stop its a choise of personal strength, if you really wanted too you would find a way

how could either of you miss this problem before you got married, and why did you still marry