Is it alright to have boyfriend while you file for divorce?

Question

Cause my husband is mental.

Answer 1

Yes it is.  I found the perfect man while I was still divorcing my ex.

Answer 2

Yes its is this will help you go on with your life here!I'm so very sorry to hear about you and your husband here! I been there twice in my life and I always had a boyfriend! Good Luck girl!

Answer 3

No problem, unless you are afraid for your life.  If he is mental, then I would wait until the divorce is final then haul my @ss far from him!!  Of course, if he is in the military, or if you are, then it can be damaging to his/your career, and may s***w up the divorce proceedings.

Honestly, I would just wait until it was all final and then move and go have your fun. =)

Answer 4

No. It means that you're insecure and looking for a life raft.  Its not fair to you or the person you're "dating" while waiting for the divorce.  Shouldn't you get one relationship over with before starting another?

Answer 5

yup its a part of moving on  so girl do u

Answer 6

only if it's a casual relationship.

rebound relationships rarely work out -- and a person going through a divorce (even if you are the one filing), has so much going on emotionally, there's nothing left to give to someone else.

i'd say, take your time getting involved again...

Answer 7

lol it sure is go have some fun girl

Answer 8

Technically no!

You still have not finalized it

But now and days it is common. So oh well lol.

It is your life lol

Answer 9

Take him to court with you

Since he is a mental case, make him drool more.

Answer 10

Its your choice to have the boyfriend if you wish. Though while you are filing for divorce it might be a bit misconstrued to the judge if they ask about or see your boyfriend in court. They would likely assume that the new guy is part of the reason for the divorce. But also I think its best to not date someone until the divorce is competely finalized, because depending on how things go in court, the judge may just order you into some counselling, so there by you would still be married and if you had a boyfriend that would be infidelity.

Answer 11

Go Barbi!

Answer 12

once the divorce is certain i don't think it matters if you have a boyfriend or not.

unless there is a custody battle. in that case NO BOYFRIEND til after the divorce

Answer 13

it's ok...s*x brings a lot of relief...the emotion of a bf maybe too much for you though.