Is it as simple as this?

Question

A good looking guy who makes suggestive comments is seen as charming while an ugly guy making the same comments is seen as sleazy?

Discuss

Answer 1

It all depends how each one is saying it. the Ugly guy seems to be more desperate the other guy.

Answer 2

Hmm ... VERY interesting!

Answer 3

No, it's not that simple. Some women are immune to all suggestive comments that come from people they've never met, even if some of those people are absolutely drop-dead gorgeous. I find it creepy when anyone makes suggestive comments to complete strangers.

MIKE T: Yeah, and you've flirted with all of them. Right.

Answer 4

People assume attractive men can actually GET s*x if they want it. Thus, they have no reason to be creepy.

Ugly men usually have it harder so its "assumed" they want it BAD... and that's "creepy".

Answer 5

welcome to the world of prejudice.

Edit-

Mike T is correct on this, when a good looking woman prositions a guy for s*x she is treated with respect, but when an morbidly obese lady does it she is call a nasty s**t.

Answer 6

Your context description is unscientific, lacks definition for its classifications and the process of cognitive (mental) association.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Association...

Answer 7

I don't think it's that simple, because our perceptions of what IS attractive vary from person to person. What someone else thinks is hot might be repulsive to another. I would think it would also depends on the setting of which these comments were made.

Honestly, if I didn't know the person and they made suggestive comments - good looking or not - I would probably be a little perturbed that they feel they could get away with talking to me like that. An attractive person can become very unattractive if the comments are not solicited. There is nothing less charming than a pretty boy trying too hard.

Answer 8

I dunno. I'm attracted to all kinds of odd people.

I think it might be an issue of persistence. There's a guy here some people call Smiegle (sp?) so his nickname should indicate the general consensus on his appearance and if he made the odd comment, I wouldn't think anything of it really... but if he talked incessantly, I'd just think he was a weirdo.

A s**y man who makes a couple of comments would probably be more interesting to a woman, but if he also talked incessantly it'd turn me off.

Everyone gets a few freebies but anyone dedicated to describing their s*x life, their desired s*x life, or what they'd like to do to that girl in Tent 3 are universally irritating.  

Answer 9

An attractive looking guy can totally ruin everything from comes out of his mouth. If he makes suggestive comments, I'll just walk off. I don't like it when strangers feel they can make such inappropriate comments and think they are flattering me.