Is it bad at 14 to never have a boyfriend?

Question

i was just wondering if its a bad thing to never had a proper boyfriend at the age of 14?

Answer 1

I wasn't even allowed to date until I was 16. Quiet grateful. I got to enjoy being a kid while it lasted. So no, it's not a bad thing.

Jenxx

Answer 2

Hey, I'm 14. I've never had a relationship with a boy.

I am normal. Lot's of girls I know are in the same situation. Most ppl don't date 'til their 16.

Be happy!

Answer 3

Not at all.

Answer 4

OF course it's not bad... you are soooo young and have sooo much ahead of you, don't rush into anything.  And stop thinking about it sooo much, If a guy is going to come into your life, he will come when you least expect it. TRUST ME!!!!!

Answer 5

proper boyfrnd? what is that supposed to mean? u r in ur pre teens enjoy this time rather than messing up ur studies and ..........  BTW no one has proper GF or BF so enjoy with frnds.  and dont ask these silly questions they r not of Global Importance.

Answer 6

No its not a problem.

if you are 39 it may be different, but you're so young you will meet someone soon i am sure.

Answer 7

yes. Consider yourself a failure. You might as well start collecting cats now.

Oh wait, you were serious?? 14 year olds dont need boyfriends. No, it's not bad. It *should* be normal but parents dont care what their kids do nowdays so lots of girls get their first boyfriends by age 2. You have plenty of time to deal with all the nonsense and drama that comes with having a boyfriend....dont rush into it.

Answer 8

Definately not a bad thing.

I know around that age that there is a lot of pressure into thinking you can only be happy if you have a boyfriend.

I'm a guy, and I can tell you thats not the case, you don't need a boy to define you. I'm 17, I've never had a girlfriend, not because I couldn't get one, but because I chose not too. It's your decison, but don't let the people around you make your decisions.

Your young, so am I, majority of what happens in our teenage years means nothing in the end. So don't think you need to have a boyfriend. Believe me when I say there is a lot to learn still when your 14.  

Answer 9

Absolutely not.  I am 23 and I met my first boyfriend when I was 22.  We are still together for over a year.

I waited till I found exactly what I wanted.  And i made sure that i could support myself fully and never have to rely on anyone!

Answer 10

There's nothing wrong with that. I can understand with all the pressure why you might be curious as to wonder if its normal.

I'm 18 and haven't had a boyfriend, if that makes you feel better.

Answer 11

don't u like to be like a free bird flying in the sky . ur only 14 enjoy ur life being single . Relations brings responsibilities and u don't want to feel the its burden right now .. so enjoy ur life in the best possible way till ur single

that's my opinion and the rest is up to u its ur life live it in whatever way u want to .  we all can only suggest u a way..

Answer 12

No.

Boys are idiots anyway.

Answer 13

trust me you dont want one.

Answer 14

NO dear its no harm love does not know age , but law does.so be on safer side.

You can have some healthy fun with your boy

Regards

IMI