Is it bad if i go to those parties with drugs and alcohol? im only 13?

Question

well my friend invited me he is 14 he said there is alcohol and drugs and hot chicks, the girls made me want to go but i decided not to, is it a good idea to go if im 13 if he invites me again?

Answer 1

Considering the photo that you have as an avatar, it is more than clear that you most def. do not need to be at any party with drugs or alcohol at all!

Answer 2

NO!!! stay way

Answer 3

That's a horrible idea! You should never get mixed in with the wrong crowd no matter how fun it sounds. It won't be fun when you become a drudged up alcoholic.

Answer 4

I think you know the answer...No, it's not right to go...you have no business being at a party if you are 13 years old.  Do you want to go to juvenile hall already???  

(thinking that is a bad path to take...)

Answer 5

I think its a bad idea when you 13. Try 16 maybe because you know adults can stop us teenagers. But seriously wait a few years. And you definitely should do the drugs ever.

Answer 6

YOUR ONLY 13! ARE YOU THAT IDIOTIC?! Let's say that the cops decide to visit the same party you might be at...What are they going to say to you when they see a 13yr old there...Use whatever common sense you have. No parties with drugs and alcohol till your older but if there is just girls there then fine but nothing more than just talking you got that? Unless you want a kid that is only 10 yrs younger than you.

Answer 7

h**l- to- tha- NAW!! It's just going to put you at many risks that you will later regret, besides the chicks at those parties are usually worn out. Stay real to yourself and keep away from people and places like that.

Answer 8

If you seriously have to ask if it's bad for you to attend a party where people are doing drugs and drinking... no matter what your age, you probably need some kind of guidance. On a second note, you should probably change your account picture if you're only 13.

Answer 9

dude, im 13 too. and i know better than this! i vote stay out of this.

Answer 10

yeah don't go. you should seriously concentrate on other things. you can party later in life.  

Answer 11

ha you think my answer was fake :)

at least i dont have to look at naked pics i can see them 4 real

Answer 12

it's not the party that's the issue.. it's the people involved.

avoid them, they're losers...  you don't need a party to do anything or be accepted.

move on with your life, hobbies and think about your future.. these guys will be doing this from here on out in their lives...  you'll see half of them die...  the other half still doing this whole "cool, chicks and parties"  well into their 40s....

i know.. i've been there.. got tired of the scene.. didn't like it but it was there and i got used to that c**p.

it was a waste of time, embarassing and almost like these people were lost and avoiding reality or adulthood.

and most haven't changed.. they're still in trouble emotionally and half of them are so destroyed by their actions i can't see how they still can get up in the mornings.

it's like they're 14 year old's stuck in 40 something year old bodies and still doing stupid stuff..  some had kids and most are divorced and their kids hate them but they blame everything and everyone else but themselves for all of it.

and very angry most of them are....   these folks don't even look well anymore.

sorry, i had to express my feelings on this matter.

i'm glad i finally moved on...    i wanted to fit in yet... they weren't my crowd but i hung on until i just got overtired of it all and left finally.

then i was the 'betrayer'   and all that junk..  what a joke!

Answer 13

No, it is very bad.  If you get caught, the school is informed, parents, police, the whole deal.

Even if you don't drink, if you go and a friend of yours drinks... guess what, you CAN be held RESPONSIBLE for what was going on, even if you didn't do anything. Maybe not the whole party of course, but that a friend was there drinking while you were there.  (They can get you for very odd things, especially if alcohol is involved and you're the legal age)

Trust your instincts/morals, don't cave into peer-pressure, it only leads to problems.

Answer 14

If you don't feel comfortable around those items then don't go. If you know you won't give in to peer pressure and won't drive or take drugs then it okay for you to go. If you parents don't want you exposed to those things then do not go either.

Hope I helped (:

Answer 15

You're 13

You go to parties with drugs and alcohol

You have a nasty picture up

You are a s***k

Sure, you should go because you have so many problems, so you're life is already over.

Answer 16

no it is not.

you did the right thing by not going.

stay away from that c**p.

Answer 17

You are right. It is not a good idea to go to the party.  Even if you do not drink or do drugs, you become guilty by association.  Don't surround yourself with things that you do not want to be a part of no matter what age you are.

Answer 18

no!!

keep out of trouble!!!!

ur just 13!!!!!!!!

Answer 19

Superbad was rated R.

I always thought the rating system was a bit silly because I felt a 13 year old could differentiate between reality and fiction, but you have proved me wrong. Thanks.

Answer 20

dont go please keep pure i wont want to c you go to h**l  cuz you fall so deep in sin and cant get out  please dont go

Answer 21

don't go and refuse and be better than the rest and stand up to the peer pressure you are only 13 , btw my brother has become a drug addict because he started using drugs at a age like you are now . and believe me you would not want to know what he has gone through . so good luck with your life and try hard to be better and stronger then all the rest of the kids, PUT A LITTLE VALUE TO YOUR LIFE AND STAY OFF DRUGS