Is it bad that my boyfriend asks me every day for a hand job?

Question

it ends up happening every time we hang out.

i dont want to even recieve it every time we hang out. it seems like thats the goal every night we hang out.n (which is every day)

i never really initiate it. sometimes i do, like ill put my hand there, but its every time he wants it. i know hes a guy and whatnot, and that its typical, but if he says he loves me shouldnt he just wait for me to initiate it? once in a while him aking is okay. but it pisses me off so much when he forces my hand down there. he also always asks for em to give him a BJ and ive not even been with him for 2 months.

hes not a bad guy.

it just pisses me off.

please no stupid comments like, suck it or give it to him.

these are not helpful in any way. thanks. i just need real advice.

Answer 1

This one is really easy sweetie. If you don't want to do it then tell him. Don't do anything you don't feel like doing. Sounds like he knows he can get you to do it and he is taking advantage of your willingness to please him.

Good luck

Answer 2

You need to set limits.  He's treating you like an inflatable doll.  

Answer 3

It's going to be hard for him to stop wanting it every time. Talk to him about how you feel and let him know you don't mind doing it but not every time. Try doing different things that will distract him from thinking sexual thoughts.  

Answer 4

He doesn't respect you. I would cut your relation off with him.

Answer 5

it's normal since u have spoiled him.

apperntly your doin a good job!

Answer 6

You have only been with him two months and you are giving him hand jobs every day? Get some self respect.

Answer 7

It makes me wonder what kind of guy you have there. Horny, sure, but disrespectful of you.

My point is that he has no self-control, and apparently neither do you.

"If it feels good, do it" just doesn't cut it anymore.  

This is not the kind of guy you will have a long-term future with.

If you cease this activity, he'll probably find someone else, which isn't altogether a bad thing.

Have some respect for yourself.  

Answer 8

you have a right to say no! and if he gets mad o well he'll get over it! you respect yourself and your body! say you need space you've only been together for two months and he is going way two fast! step up girl!

and if he leaves you forget him! there are many more in the sea trust me

Answer 9

he's being greedy. just flat out tell him that u dont feel lke it. & if he wants u to "feel like it" then tell him to  stop being so selfish & do YOU a favor to get u in the mood

Answer 10

Dont ever let anyone make you do something you dont want to. Just tell him you want to take it slow. Like you said it has only been two months and if he likes you he'll wait.

I am not sure, but it seems to me that you are still pretty young, dont be too quick to jump into adult situations, ie. s*x. You should wait until you have found the "right" person. Just a little bit of advice b/c that seems to be the road you are headed down.

Answer 11

Hi, firstly, he is a man & all men think from there  lol  If u don't like him putting ur hand there every nite tell him it pisses u off & if u wanna do it u will..after all ( excuse the pun ) its ur hand....

Answer 12

Boys will be boys. Listen to your body, it will tell you when you are ready!

Answer 13

talk to him about it...thats a start.