Is it bad to be friends w/ benefits with your brothers best friend?

Question

It started in the middle of the summer. I'm starting to grow feelings for him, but I can't cause it was suppose to be for fun type thing. I want to end it but I don't know how. HELP!!!!!

Answer 1

You shouldn't put conditions on any friendship, not a good ideal. How do you end it. Stop the benefit and explain that its time you both move on.

Answer 2

If you have feelings for your brother's friend talk to him and see how he feels about you. Your brother has nothing to say about it and will make his own choice on how to deal with it. Life is too short to try to anticipate how everyone will react to everything you do. Quite possibly, the secrecy of the affair was the best part of it. Why would you want to end the relationship now if your feelings have grown into more than just a summer fling? So you have so much love in your life there is no room for more?

Answer 3

U messed up..  If u two can't be in a relationship and work things out ur brother will lose his best friend.  

Answer 4

try too get back home if it does not work send me mail

Answer 5

One could use a very old but effective trick.  Be honest!

Answer 6

Talk to him. Maybe he wants to end it too, or maybe he wants to make it "official." He shouldn't be upset if you want to end it, even if he doesn't, seeing as how it was suppose to be just for fun!

Answer 7

Friends with benefits is not a good idea in general.  

Answer 8

Well, Big B (much more hip...), if you're going to start school anytime soon, then that's the classic excuse to end a sour relationship. Tell him it was a summer fling and you're going to be too tied up during the wintertime to be there for him in any shape, way, or form. Stick with it though. Don't respond to any form of communication he attempts, if any.

If you're not going to school, then just disregard and pick a better answer. Lol...

Answer 9

it's a bad idea usually because the girl tends to end up with feelings for the guy whereas the guy just wants the benefits.  it's also a bad idea if your brother has a problem with it.