Is it bad to like a lot of guys at once?

Question

Here's my problem...

A bunch of guys I know like me, but I don't like any of them. This is for reasons that are not really important. But I seem to be attracted to guys that I'm not friends with/don't know very well but see a lot in school, and ones that live near me. I like abour 4 at once, and I know it's not so good.

One lives near me and is 2 years older (I'm 16) but our parents are friends. We don't really talk or are ever together but we used to like eachother a lot when we were kids. The other lives about 20 minutes away and his mom is friends with my mom. Another one swims on the school team with me and I know his sister pretty well. And the last one is sort of a friend but he has a girlfriend and is kind of...idk not a good influence which is bad bc I'm kind of a "good girl" but not in a weird way.

Yeah I know that was an annoying question but I'm lost. Thanks!

Answer 1

no it's not bad. It's normal because you're young. Unless you hook up with all of them , then you'll be a s.l.u.t!

To narrow it down to the one you like the most, try making a list of what you look for in a guy. Then choose the guy that has those qualities.

Good Luck!

November Rain

Answer 2

I've done it before, its confusing, but also as soon as one of those guys probably starts liking you back, you loose interest.

Its very annoying.

I think you should try to limit down to one guy you really like, i know how hard it is though, i'm doing it all the time, except now. Because the number one guy i like, is finally returning my feelings and i'm actually not getting bored/loosing interest, its amazing.

Try that route, and don't go with the guy who has a girlfriend either. Thats just trouble and heartbreak for yourself.

Hope this helps :)