A girl I met recently told me she just got engaged and showed me her engagement ring. I know she is young and not everyone can afford a sizable diamond, but I called it "adorable"... I don't know why it just slipped out! I think I made her and her mom feel bad. I grew up in an upper class family and have a considerable sized diamond myself, so maybe that's why I immediately judged it as cute and adorable, because it was. I didn't mean to be rude, but it's just tiny compared to the ones I'm used to seeing. I know that sounds horrible and I don't think I'm stuck up, I have just been blessed to have nice things in my life. I am not judging her either for her diamond, I know she was proud of it, that's why I feel so bad!
I feel terrible now! Would you be offended if someone said this to you?
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