Is it bad when a man ejaculate too quickly? Or when they take too long?

Question

I just want to kno ifts bad if they come to fast, or if they take to long to come!!!

Answer 1

A woman tends to not like it either way. :P

Answer 2

It's totally a communication thing. If a woman desires an o****m he should satisfy her first and foremost. If you both want a "quickie" that's up to the two people involved. If you want a time limit let him know beforehand. If you don't want an o****m let him know. If you want an extended period of sexual excitement, have the time and really feel hot go for it! Communication is the key thing here. If you really don't feel in the mood explain it to him. If a male ejaculates too quickly there are many ways to learn to delay his urge to explode.

I don't know if you've ever tried this but mutual coital and oral orgasms are really mind-blowing and they're really easy to do if you practice and plan ahead.  

Answer 3

If it is two short it is called premature ejaculation which affects 10 - 20% of men (stress mostly) and the same thing will happen if the guy hasn't ejaculated in a few days. All it really causes is a embarrassment and may leave you unsatisfied but if it happens to many times just make him go see a doctor to see if there is something wrong with him physically.

Taking two long of a time could get a little annoying for you if your satisfied and he isn't but the main reason he takes to long is also stress or lack of concentration  

Answer 4

That depends on how tired I am!!

Answer 5

It depends on your preference, I suppose.

It is common for men to take a short time, or long time. Unless it’s always like this, the man in question probably doesn’t need to see a doctor, or anything of that sort (if that’s what you’re hinting at.)

It’s usually over fast for first-timers, if that helps.

Answer 6

Its bad for the women not the guy.When the go to fast its because they are very horny,and when they last to long they can be horny,but sometimes it takes a bit more time for guys to go.