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Is it because he's a really nice person, or...

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This guy, we are classmates, has been giving me driving lessons. He comes and pick me up and teach me for more than 2 hours each time, he even asks me if I would like to go to the store, and he takes me there. We're in College. I really don't know why he helps me like that, I mean, he's being very helpful and all. Is there any chance that he might be interested in me, or is it because he is just a very nice guy?

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  1. guys can be nice. kinda like me. but not that nice. h**l no.  its not in our genes to be nice without going for sumthing. and that is the girls... lol. honest answer from an honest guy. :)


  2. It seems like there's a chance he may be interested in you. He's spending a lot of time with you, taking you to the store, helping out, etc. He could have just been helping you with your driving, but he's doing extra things, too. I think he likes you.

  3. That's hard to say - he could be just a very nice guy that likes to help people out or he could also be a very nice guy that likes to help people out, but who also happens to be interested in you, lol!  You know the nice and natural (considering the circumstances) thing for you to do is ask him to dinner some evening.  During one of your driving lessons, ask him what he likes to eat, what is his favourite dessert, what type of movies does he like, etc., and if he asks why you want to know just be honest and tell him you would like to have him over for dinner.  If he doesn't ask, then simply invite him for dinner when you are through with your driving lesson.  Plan a nice dinner and get a good movie that you think he might like to see - and let nature takes its' course.  Spending an evening together like this, you will know one way or the other if this guy is really interested - personally, I think he is.

    Best of Luck!

    Edit:  I forgot that you said in your post that you're in college, so I don't know what your living arrangements may be.  If you can't invite him to your place for a home-cooked meal, just casually mention that you would like to treat him by taking him out to dinner and see how he reacts.  His reaction should tell you whether or not he is interested and if he would like to take it to the next level, i.e. a date.  It's worth a try and remember this, you can't win if you don't play.

  4. you won't know for sure unless you ask him.  if he really is just a nice guy who isn't interested in you in that way (however he could be both nice and into you) i'm sure he'll be very nice about letting you know.

  5. If anything, I would say he's a very nice guy who's most likely interested in you. Still, you can't know for sure unless you find out for yourself.  

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