Is it because he doesn't find me atractive anymore?

Question

I had s*x with one of my ex yesterday. It was great expect that he couldn't reach o****m. We drank alcohol before having s*x. So do you think alcohol was his reason or is it because he doesn't find me attractive anymore?

I am 5'3 and I used to weigh 115 albs but now I am at 126 lbs. noticed that I put on weight when he saw me. I am now worried that he doesn't find me attractive anymore

Answer 1

Ummm...he is your ex...you aren't supposed to care if he finds you attractive or not.  Oh, and it was probably the alcohol or some of the emotional issues attached with sleeping with an ex.  You are fine.

Answer 2

1.  Oh, please!  126 is not fat or unattractive.  Stop thinking like that right now!

2.  The ex is an ex for a reason.  So why are you fooling around with him?  It is probably not a wise idea.  

3.  It could have been the alcohol.  He could be having some health/physical problems.  He could be getting older.  Maybe he was worried you were finding him fat or unattractive.  Maybe he was thinking, "The ex is an ex for a reason."  

If you want to know what the problem was, talk to him.  You won't get this resolved on Yahoo Answers.      

Answer 3

Stop having s*x with your ex.  He is an EX for a reason...OMG why do you care about whether he finds you attractive or not?  Stop letting guys use you.  I bet you a million dollars he wouldn't committ to you if you wanted. Please move on.  You can do better.  

Answer 4

Don't worry about it.  He drank because he wanted to. It has nothing to do with you.  

Answer 5

don't have s*x with your ex!

other than that, i'd say it was definitely the alcohol. if he went so far with you as that, i'm sure it's because he wanted to.  

Answer 6

Why are you concerned if your ex still finds you attractive or not ?

You had s*x with him so he was not bothered what you looked like then was he.

I think your problem is not how you look, you sound fine to me, its the fact that you had s*x just for the h**l of it.

Alcohol has a lot to do with poor performance in bed anyway so stop blaming yourself.

You need to get a little self esteem here and stop sleeping with has beens.

Answer 7

Even at your current weight I could still toss you around and bend you like a pretzel; and at 5'3" you sound like quite the spicy little dish...kinda beat up since I can't get this cartoon image out of my head! Anyway, no, it's not because he's not attracted to you; it's because of the alcohol. Booze might give us liquid courage, but it doesn't give us enhanced performance.  So, got any cartoon sisters?