Is it because of my weight? Should i lose weight?

Question

My friends are all very skinny and one of them is extremely sporty and popular. Recently they have all been very carcastic and organising things without me. we spent yesterday shopping in the childrens sections of shops, and everytime i asked to whizz around the adult bit they said "no" and turned around and giggled. Should i lose weight to fit in?

Answer 1

Perhaps your friends are changing and they want to ditch you. -_-" You should get better friends or ask them straight out what's going on. Once you confront and corner them, they'll know you are not easy and they can't step all over you as they please. >_<" You need to stand up for yourself. If it turns out that they no longer want to be your friends, then let it be so because being friends with these kinds of people isn't worth the trouble or the (emotional) pain.

Best wishes!

Answer 2

stupid so called friends i'd ditch that crowd and get some real friends and p.s you could of just gone you have a mind of your own adults should buy adult clothes children should ware children's clothes simple don't be a sheep and follow the rest

Answer 3

if ur happy with ur size then no!, if u loose weight do it for urself not cos ur friends.

I would suggest getting new friends, they dont sound like nice people

Answer 4

No, you should grow a backbone & get some nice friends.

Answer 5

No - it's kinda creepy they can all still fit in kids clothes (why would they want to wear babies clothes!!?) I say scr*w them, they don't sound very nice physically or mentally.

They're probably just being like that because they're jealous of your more womanly figure. So go make some new, proper friends, and leave them to be losers. Your better than that!

Answer 6

you shouldn't lose weight to be in the popular crowd. if your friends are acting like that then they aren't really your friends. maybe they should gain weight to hang out with you. if they are shopping in the kids department then that should tell you something.... they are TOO skinny.

Answer 7

If I were in your shoes I would only loose weight if I wanted to. You should never 'do' anything that you wouldn't normally do just to fit in. That takes away your personality. If your friends are laughing at you about your weight then you should confront them about it or find some different friends. If they are long time friends of yours I would sit down and talk to them about it. Let them know how you feel and if they continue to laugh at you then tell them that even if you are overweight at least you aren't shallow and think so lowly of close friends. Then I would walk away and leave it at that because arguments are never fun.

Answer 8

NO. The best thing to do is Dump your "So called Friends", and let them suffer with their insecurities. They wont be in the children's section for long, so don't sweat it. No, you don't need to lose weight for anybody. They are just very immature brats.  

Answer 9

You should only loose weight for yourself. For your physical well being, your health. If your so called friends treat you like that then they are not your friends.  

Answer 10

if you are really overweight for your own well being you should eat

a healthy diet and speak to a doctor first, before doing anything

it sounds like you are quite young so this probably is really horrible

for you.

they aren't real friends - or maybe they are jealous about something

about you. maybe they are too thin!

speak to one of them on their own and ask out right why they are

doing this. its nasty and childish.

if it happens again very firmly say you aren't going to waste time with

a group of losers and going to see some other people(even if it means

going home). don't lose your temper or cry cos they will think they

have won. just laugh and walk off.

good luck

Answer 11

Don't lose weight for other people only lose weight for yourself !

Best thing you can do is ditch these so called friends because they are going to giggle at you whether you lose weight or not

Answer 12

Your friends sound like losers.  Ditch those friends, and find some new ones.  I guess they shop in the children's dept because they are children and they sure do act like it too!!  You don't have to put up with that.  Don't worry about your weight, i'm sure you are fine.  Hanging with these friends will cause you to have a self esteem issue and that's not good.

Answer 13

No, if they're behaving like that then they're not really your friends.

Answer 14

no you should lose the 'friends'. If your friends are still in kids sizes and you are not well that just shows that you are a young woman who is devolping at a faster rate then your friends who are clearly jealous little girls.

Answer 15

Your friends are jerks and you are having a self-esteem issue. This is not the fault of your weight. You chose bad friends and need to be a woman about it. Ditch these idiots and realize that you're awesome. :)

Answer 16

that makes no sense... if you are shopping in the kids section, doesn't that mean that you aren't fat? cause kids clothes are much smaller than adult clothes?!... don't lose weight to make someone else happy... if you wanna lose weight do it for yourself...