Is it best its over ? ?

Question

My girl friend will not follow my rules today regarding her drinking of alcohol. These are the instruction I give her: I said; "Ok well look, this is it you. you never drink again unless its with me when you goto your mates you do not drink you never go back to chocolate binges and you work with me in all we do." She want to compromise. There is not room for any compromise.

Answer 1

I just don't see how a relationship is fair when one has to control what the other does. Love is about caring and sharing and compromise and if there is no compromise she will feel imprisoned and eventually want to break free.

Answer 2

Well im sure you want whats best for your girlfriend. If she really loves you and I'm sure she does, will take your advice and abide by your " no drinking rules" because  it's really in her best interest. Well i'm sure she will choose your way. No drinking,  unless you guys are drinking together. Makes perfect sense.

Answer 3

You're an a** and she's better off without you!

Answer 4

Maybe your girlfriend shouldn't be drinking as much but under NO circumstances should you be controlling her.  She has her own mind and if she wants to stop drinking then she will.  I would not ever have a relationship with you.  You are CONTROLLING  and its against all human rights.  Leave her alone.  Let her go.  She deserves a life, a good life WITHOUT you in it.