Is it better to dump your wife instead of having an open marriage?

Question

Is it better to dump your wife instead of having an open marriage?

Answer 1

Dude there's no such thing as an open marriage. Remember the marriage vows.. If what you guys plan to do doesn't apply to the marriage vows before God, it's not a marriage. It's deception. It's adultery. You are very odd.

Answer 2

Personal preference discuss it with your wife, if you can. Maybe you belong together for real.

Answer 3

move on.. do her a favor.. you should know that answer already.. no offense.. but maybe you need to look at growing up...  do you want to be lonely for the rest of your life do to unimportant relationships in your life?  Think about where you want to be over the next 10-20 years...

Answer 4

Wife should not be dump just like that. Sorry to tell.

Answer 5

you are an odd person

Answer 6

Oh great!  Now your being a Yerk again...  Tisk tisk....  

Answer 7

If you want an open marriage ... do her a favor and divorce her ... in my experience , open marriages end up in divorce anyway.

Answer 8

yes, yes and one more time yes

Answer 9

I think the wife should dump you.  However some women and men can handle this situation.  I would advise talking about it with her before you get married.  Call me old fashioned but I still believe in "forsaking all others from this day forward".

Answer 10

In your case I hope she dumps you!

Answer 11

There's no such thing as an open marriage, I mean why marry someone if you don't want to keep yourself only unto them, that makes you a liar from the start. Have some repect for your ownself by leaving your wife...leave her her dignity.  

Answer 12

show us your wife then i should know ..  

Answer 13

I am looking at your picture, and I hate to be the one to tell you this, but I would have to advise you to keep the wife, be faithful, and hope she doesn't leave you.  You are not as desirable as you might think you are.  Besides she may leave you if she finds someone better, and the grass is rarely greener on the other side anyway!

Good Luck with your decision.

Answer 14

yes it would be better to seperate

Answer 15

why in the he** get married if you need more then your mate..that's why this world is so screwed up. people that think that is a marriage are far out there...

Answer 16

Does your wife know how pathetic you are?

Answer 17

why don't you ask her, if she don't understand and can not accept it and you can't live a closed marriage, then you do need to re-think your marriage

Answer 18

you know she will never unleash the beast..lol

Answer 19

open marriages never can be successful,  only by being honest to your spouse you can be successful in your personal life

Answer 20

open marriages only work for those that are comfortable with sharing. Most people are NOT comfortable with sharing their spouse. Ive seen alot of marriages break down because of it.

With most relationships..its the guy that suffers the jealousy the most, because it IS a sexist world and its easier for a woman to find multiple partners, where the guy (usually the one that suggested it in the first place) finds he aint getting as much action as he thought he was going to lol

Answer 21

Do you love each other? Are you both willing to participate in an open marriage? Do you want to see her at the end of the night? If you answered to yes to all the above questions then I believe the answer would be to have an open marriage. If the answer is no, then let her go so she can find true love.

Answer 22

You ask the weirdest question lol!

If you cheat you might as well dump you wife and let het find a faithful person lol!

Open marriages never last!

Answer 23

yes. get her dumped!

You'll be doing her a great favour.