Is it better to get revenge or just let things go? and give me your sign...

Question

i had a friend move into my house as a favor he trashed my house and left w/o paying me rent.....

Answer 1

You torture and traumatize yourself when you don't forget. :-)

Poor Scorpio.  Their own worst enemy.

Answer 2

I'm a Capricorn and I think revenge is a complete and utter waste of time.  I think your friend owes you a lot (like money and a serious apology), but that's it. What's the point of revenge?  It's just instant gratification.  Just move on with your life and don't waste your time (and potentially get in legal trouble) over some idiot.

Answer 3

well, from a cancer w/ aries rising's point of view...revenge is sweet. but like somebody else said, this sounds like a legal issue. you sue his a*s for every penny  he's worth. that'll teach him a lesson.

^_^

Answer 4

when someone does something to me i usually will confront them about it . but if its not a big deal ill just put it off for a little while and eventually forget what i was mad about in the first place.

im a sag.

Answer 5

Well, this sounds like a legal issue. Usually I would say let the little things go, but your not trying to get revenge on this friend. Sounds like he used you and you deserve compensation for him living in your house.  

I'm a LIBRA :)

Answer 6

I'm the type that will let things go as long as your didn't hurt me physically or emotionally. But in this case I would let it go. Besides he'll either need you again or end up feeling like c**p at some  point and then you can tell him where to go.But if there is anyway you can make him give you the money he owes than do it. That's not revenge that is taking what's owed.

Answer 7

Hi Sassy Gal :)

There are three open way.  First just forget about rent and continue with your friendship.  Second never forget this deed from him and cut all the relations with him/her.  Third just gather all the proofs and document and sue him/her and fight till you win.

All these options depands on which sign you have.  

Most probably if you are Aris, Cancer, Libra or Capricorn you will take the third the hars action and you will win, it is notmally seen in Char or movable sign tendancy..  If you are Taurus, Leo, Scorpio or Aquarian which are sthir or still or unmoving sign,you will select the first option to forget and continue with him/her. But if you are Gemini, Virgo, or Saggitarious which are multi tendancy sigh of moving ( Char) and still (Sthir) signs you will always be in this kind of dilemas for "What to do"  or just " Do or not to Do" like Othelo of Sexpear :(

So just be still and be practical and just warn him and get payment which ever is recovarable and continue with him/her as friend but with warning in mind about this instant.

Rest, Do it your self quckly  :)

Answer 8

let it go. I was at this same delimma just a couple of weeks ago. Revenge is bittersweet, because the excitement of doing it is the climax, but once it's done, it's like "is that all", and remember what you do will always come back to you. always. and once that revolution comes full swing, it is gonna hit you twice as hard, I promise. What he did does sound like a legal matter, and you can def. take him to court. The one thing you can do is put him on blast, and that's not revenge because all you're doing is stating to ppl what he did, and that is the truth, so they'll know about his character more and probably end up losing respect for him. Girly, do you and s***w him. No time for drama in your life, ask your higher power to take out the ppl you don't need in your life and bring ppl into your life that will benefit you and appreciate you.

Answer 9

I understand the desire for revenge, with my Scorpio moon, trust me, I've thought about revenge.  The truth is, it's NEVER actually satisfying.  Isn't there a middle?  Like the above comment, isn't there a legal matter at stake?  

In the end, there have been many matters that I've had to just let go, just because IT'S THE RIGHT THING TO DO and I realize I'm the one with INTEGRITY and they are not.  

I'm a Capricorn