Is it better to have friends you hate or no friends at all?

Question

My friends are always mean to me and I'm always being left out. I can't make new friends. So please don't say make new friends. The situation I am in and how I am means I can't make new friends. But is it better to ditch the mates I'm in because I don't like them, or just keep them and accept it because otherwise I wont have any friends?

Answer 1

Just think. Will you be more miserable with people who put you down or by just being on your own? Don't be with people for the sake of it.

Answer 2

Okay that's tricky. But i would say make new friends but you cant. So either build up some confindence and ask them why they are mean to you or just stick with them and be sad for the rest of your life. Hope it all works out!

Answer 3

i feel the exact same way. i feel like its more important to have no friends than have friends that hate you because i'd rather chill by myself than feel like c**p all the time, you know?  

Answer 4

Those people aren't your friends.  You can't have friends you hate!

Answer 5

well its not good having no friends. but its worse if you hate them, dont let them walk all over you. stick up for yourself and if they dont like it, the dont be their friend.

eventually you will make new friends, just sit beside them in a class and talk to them a bit.

do the thing i just said before you ditch them if you do so.

make your `friends` respect you!

if they say something mean, dont say something mean back. like if they called you a name say "how the fXck am i?"

sweetie dont let them walk all over you!

Hope this works out for you.

xD

dont worry, you WILL make new friends.

and talkin to your mom always helps too.

:D

Answer 6

Those people are not your friends if they make you feel like that, why not try asking them why they leave you out? people like your friends should be challenged on their behaviour and you will often find that they do change once they realise you can stand up for yourself. If you come across as shy or timid they might see you as an easy target, or maybe its you who needs to try and get in the group a bit more, after all it has to be a two way effort. You say you find it hard to make friends but how did you make friends with the group your hanging with now?. The bottom line is If they make you feel that unwelcome then i would suggest maybe spending time on your own, that way you'll see how absolutly lonely it can be and maybe it will give you the determination and confidence to make some new decent friends who actually care about you.

Answer 7

Ditch them. Nothing worse than trying to be friends with people who are simply nasty. Better to be a loner and answering only to yourself than trying to make a bunch of people happy who don't care about you anyway.  

Answer 8

They're not your friends. A friend is someone who encourages you, is happy for your accomplishments, is there for you, doesn't purposely exclude you, and most importantly, is nice to you!

Go out and search for this person. Be patient. Trust in God.