Is it common for a man to be in pain if he ejaculates more than once every 2 days?

Question

(WARNING, possible TMI!)

I've been with my husband for almost 6 years in total, and we've been together since he we were 19 (so we are 25 now). Anyway, he's always had the problem where he can only ejaculate once a day maximum, and only that for maybe 3 days in a row without it becoming what he calls "painful." For the most part, his rhythm seems to be once every 2 days keeps him happy and pain free.

Anyway, long story short, after I got back from an extended 2 week trip to visit my family, we've been going at it like crazy since I got home. I've been back 3 days, and we've had s*x 4 times since then, the last being his morning. So, after he ejaculated this morning and pulled out, he rolled over and cupped it like he does when it hurts. He told me it actually hurt him yesterday too, but he forced himself because he wanted me so much.

Anyway, is this something maybe he should see a urologist about? I've had friends over the years tell me about guys they have been with who can go like 5 times a day. I know everyone is different, but I'd hate to think he has always had to stifle his sexual urges because ejaculation eventually becomes painful.

Is there anything that can be done about that, or is that just the way he's always going to have to be?

Answer 1

Well , your husband can be suffering from Varicosity which in layman's terms translate to he has varicose veins in his p***s , the cords that feed blood to the male reproductive organ when varicose tend to swell,when swelled they apply pressure onto the bladder causing pain,and at times lost of erections,not to be confused with erectile dysfunction, look it up if you need more info on varicosity ,your husband should see an urologist as soon as possible so that he can get the necessary treatment ,however regret to inform you that he will have this for as long as he lives .

Answer 2

It can't hurt to seek out professional advice.

Answer 3

Ejaculation should never be painful and I suggest that he goes see a doctor immediately.  It could be an inflamed prostate, which can become serious. It is known that frequent ejaculation (at a rate of a 3/4 times a day) can cause a dull pain in the testes but this is far too infrequent for him.

It could also signal other problems too, so although i am confident that this will not be too serious at the moment, it could get worse so it is vital that he sees a doctor.  

Answer 4

never heard anything like this, i can *** several times and it never hurt

Answer 5

No, this is not normal.  He needs to go see someone. It is not normal for him to be in pain.  You should go with him so that he well feel more comfortable.  What is the point of s*x if it is not comfortable?  

Answer 6

no my balls hurt a lot if i do it too often, but i can do it 4 times in one day before they start to hurt

i think he doesn't have enough experience, which is weird because hes been married for 6 years

Answer 7

he should defiantly see the doctor  

Answer 8

this is not normal.  he shoul really see a doc, sooner the better because it might get worse. the doc might find out the problem and give him treatment so you can enjoy your s*x life, because  if s*x is painful ... something is definitely wrong ...

good luck