I thought that "birthmother" was a term used by the adoption industry to refer to a woman who had surrendered her parental rights thereby making the child available for adoption. Yet I constantly see any expectant mother who considers adoption called a "birthmother". Sometimes a woman who has chosen to parent is still called a "birthmother".
I assume that adoptive parents learn the misuse of the birthmother term from adoption workers. In fact, I have read that some adoptive parents are very dismayed when they are told by their adoption worker that they MUST address their presentation letters with the term "Dear Birthmother".
So three questions:
Is my understanding of the term "birthmother" correct? "A woman who has signed away her rights as a mother"
If so, why do adoption workers label all women receiving counseling "birthmother"? They still have the option of parenting, don’t they?
Is this misuse of the birthmother term intentional for the purpose of coercion?
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