Is it common for women to be able to o****m just by rubbing?

Question

I am not really comfortable while fingering, and I only rub over my panties but it can hurt sometimes I think because they're cotton? I am getting real close to o****m but my face flushes and then I just can't do it much more because it hurts from my panties. Anything to help or make me more comfortable?

Answer 1

THINK ABOUT MORE NOBLE THOUGHTS DEAR

Answer 2

do it without your underwear use some lube if its dry and to irriating and yes its normal thats how most girls o****m its not common to o****m vaginally though

Answer 3

It's actually uncommon for women to o****m thru penetration alone.  The clitoris is our main source of o****m and it's outside of the v****a.  I think first you should learn a little bit about your body.  

Here are a couple of safe sites for you to read about your lady parts.

http://health.discovery.com/centers/s*x/...

http://www.teenwire.com/infocus/2005/if-...

This is a good picture cause you can click on different parts to see what they are and compare them to what you see on yourself.  

http://www.teenwire.com/interactive/diag...

Now, when you touch yourself again take off the panties and get some oil (baby oil, veggie oil, whatever) so that you're not touching yourself dry.  Dry can be uncomfortable which you've discovered already.  You don't need a lot of oil but a little on your fingers with keep things smooth and it will feel much, much better.  

Dip a couple of fingers into a little bit of oil and start gently touching yourself.  Your clitoris is right at the top of your p***y.  It's just a little button.  If it hurts at first don't rub right on it, just rub around it then as you go try rubbing it again.  Experiment and see what feels best to you.  Once you've been doing it a bit your body will start producing a natural lubricant in your v****a.  You can slide one or two fingers up inside yourself to get more lubrication on them.  Go back and forth, penetration is wonderful but it's more likely to be your clitoris that will give you the best orgasms of your life.  

Learn how you like to be touched so you can tell the future man in your life.  Boys are very misinformed about what pleases a woman and it's up to us to make sure we let our guy know what he needs to do.  Remember that they aren't born knowing how to touch you anymore than you were.  

Answer 4

it seems like you are irritating your skin.  You can reach climax just by rubbing, but you might want to try a different method.  Try wearing satin or silk underwear, and rub yourself with another pair of underwear, preferably with the two shiny sides rubbing each other.  the shiny surfaces from these fabrics will cause a natural slippery reaction.