Is it completely abnormal...?

Question

I've been seeing a guy for a little while [exclusively] and last night we were both pretty drunk. Naturally we got a little affectionate, and while we didn't have s*x, we got a little intimate [just using our hands if you know what I mean]. I was thinking enough to tell him that i didn't want to have s*x, especially because we haven't slept together yet, and I wanted to remember it completely. Well today I just feel weird. He's just as sweet as ever, and when I look at his personality, looks, the way he treats me, etc, I like everything about him, but now I feel like something is missing... like I'm supposed to feel a certain way about him and I don't anymore. Why could this be?

Answer 1

"last night we were both pretty drunk. Naturally we got a little affectionate"

Why is that natural?  Not everyone that gets drunk fools around.

I totally disagree, alcohol is not a love potion.  I've gotten drunk with my GF and we don't "naturally" get affectionate....if you need booze for that, it is unnatural.

Marco!

Answer 2

At times a guy can be as perfect as it gets and still have something missing. On the other hand, he could be missing that X factor. How's his intelligence, self-discipline, motivation, integrity, and all that? Perhaps you're just in the wrong environment when you guys are together. Maybe there are too many or too little distractions.