Is it different if a girl calls to say hi rather than a guy?

Question

I just met a guy that I liked and we went out once. I called just to say hi because I have had men do this to me and I felt happy when they did. However, I felt awkward that I had called for no real reason and he seemed to think it was a little weird too. I was wondering if it is weird for a girl to do this, bc I never thought it was weird for a guy to...

Answer 1

You can call but you gotta have a reason for a guy to care.  If you call me at work just to say hi, I'd hang up on ya.  If you call and just say hi and leave it for a few awkard moments, you'll probably get the standard, what do you want?

Answer 2

I THINK GIRLS FIND IT CUTER AND THEY LIKE IT...

CUZ GIRLS LIKE THE ATTENTION FROM A GUY.

THEY LIKE TO FEEL SPECIAL.

AND 4 GUYS I ALWAYS THOUGHT THEY KINDA DONT C THE POINT IN THE LITTLE THINGS.... SO THEY WOULDNT REALLY GET THE POINT OF U CALLING. NOT THAT THEY DONT CARE... BUT JUST DONT GET WHY ITS IMPORTANT. NOW, IM A GIRL, SO IDK IF THAT IS TRUE! BUT I ALWAYS FELT THAT WAY. N IF U KEEP CALLING... ITLL ANNOY HIM.. N HONEY THAT ONE DATE WILL B THE LAST =/

Answer 3

He was just taken aback by your call because no girl ever payed attention to him like that.

This is what we need on our public service anouncements for T.V. equaly as much as the ones about drug abuse.Encourage girls to call us for once.

Answer 4

Nothing wierd about it, next time have a reason to call like an invite to go somewhere you think he may enjoy.