Is it easy to be a bit hard-hearted so that u can solve a certain problem?

Question

Is it easy to be a bit hard-hearted so that u can solve a certain problem?

Answer 1

to be hard hearted is very difficult .

to me , it is even impossible  bec im soft hearted .

but if it's a must . then i would have to go against my nature and make my heart bleed in the act .

Answer 2

   People are full of emotions and feelings. They sometimes love, and sometimes hate, they sometimes be happy, and sometimes they're not, ...etc.

What's important that no one can leave without emotions and feelings, you can't say that one in the world is with no feelings.

We all feel, but we all don't think with the same way.

   We all think with our brains, solving a lot of our daily challenges. But we think in different ways, it's a human nature. Think what would happen if we all think in the same way ............. disaster.

   People all express there feelings and ideals with different ways.

We sometimes smile (expression for happiness), sometimes shout (expression for anger), ...etc, also we could express anything in a block of words.

What's important that we all express all our feelings in a frame of ideals.

   If we mixed our true feelings with our perfect, ordered ideals in a suitable way of expression, we could solve any problem.

   About being bit hard-hearted or not, it's related to justice.

Say the truth whatever hard it is, because Justice is over every thing. You can't say that one is cruel because he is doing the right decision, even if he is gonna lose the best of things in life.

   Do what you think is right, and remember that no one in that freaked world is cruel as long as he is solving a certain problem in the right way.

   We all feel, we all think, we all express ,but we all don't take the right discussions to solve our problems, Am I right?  

Answer 3

With certain people in certain occasions ,UNFORTUNATELY U HAVE

but once u took that step u have not to regret urself abdan

Answer 4

I never find being hard hearted easy....the guilt afterwards is more than the price of finding another solution.

But depending on the problem.......it may not be hard hearted...so I can't say.

Answer 5

Sometimes you have to learn to love yourself (not hard-hearted)....

Answer 6

it's not easy for me. it almost always causes me more pain than i felt before. and even i know it, sometimes i'm hard to myself as if i want to punish myself more for something that went wrong. but i'm on the way of learning and knowing myself more every new day i get the chance of living.

Answer 7

some this heart pain we feel is a mind massage for what is right for us.

but being hard-hearted means we are going to cause pain to ourselves or to someone else.

pain is a indicator of something doesn't fit in our view of life. if it is the best to do, then we are modifying our view of life it self

Answer 8

it's not easy ma dear , but sometimes we have to .....

i wish  everything is ok  

Answer 9

No, it's not easy, but sometimes it has to be done (while you're crying from the inside!)

Answer 10

Not easy at all but sometimes we must do it.