I have two sons and over the weekend, while visiting grandparents, my seven year old had a run-in with a bully at the McDonalds playground. According to my Mom my son walked away with red marks and scratches on his neck from where the bully was trying to choke him, as well as a bump on the head from being pushed into a wall. After saying "get off me" multiple times my son finally tried to push the boy away, but the bully came after him again. My Mom finally had to intervene. The boy continued to harass my son while in the play area until my Mom approached the adult with him (a babysitter who apologized and immediately made the child apologize and leave).
My son is getting ready to start 2nd grade and I'm fearful of how he'll stand up to any potential bullying at school. Is it ever okay for him to hit back? If words aren't working, how far should I advise my son to go to protect himself? We've always told him that it's not okay to hit, so if we allow it as protection what sort of ground rules do way lay?
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