Is it exceptable to think your asian cousin is really hot?

Question

Hear me out now, my asian cousin is a very beautiful native Korean woman. She was adopted by my caucasian Aunt and Uncle when she was really young. So there's no blood relation.

Now, is it okay to think she's s**y, even go as far as to fantasize about her?

Answer 1

I think it is acceptable to fantasize about her but I would not tell her.  You don't want to ruin the relationship you have with her.  You can tell her that you think she is a beautiful girl but that is about as far as I would take it.  She may even tell her parents what you say and you don't want your Aunt to be upset and think that you have bad intentions.

Answer 2

It's okay to think she's hot.

It's uncontrollable to find someone attractive.

But since she IS your relative (even though there is no

blood relation), I suggest you do nothing more than

that.

Answer 3

harmless

Answer 4

No problem there.  In fact, in a lot of Asian countries, like Pakistan, it is perfectly normal and possibly expected that you will marry your cousin.