Is it fair of my father?

Question

He gave my older brother money for pimple remover, that cost 400 dollars and he doesn't want to pay for my physical therapy. He wants him around, so he gives him thing but he tells me he doesn't want me.

What do you think about this?

Answer 1

that is so not fair.Pimple remover is for appearance but physical thereapy is a neccesity of health

Answer 2

Thats shocking.. you must feel like c**p!  I think you should start playing him at his own game, start ignoring him, make out you don't give a **** and i promise it'll hurt him more than it'll hurt you, it might take a wee while, and you'll have to put up with your brother getting things, but if you can stick with it, it'll pay off.  He'll need you before you'll need him.

Answer 3

i think its jacked up and your dad is horrible. no father or parent shuld ever say that you need to cut your losses and save yourself the pain because how do you think he's going to treat your children if and when you have them and it can mess you up in the head and no matter what dont think it is you or anything you did wrong it's not thats probablly how his parents treated him and if they didnt your dad is just a butt head

Answer 4

Depends how old you are and whether you have an income or not as to whether he should pay for your physical therapy.  You don't say.

He is not being kind when he says he likes your brother around but not you.  If you are old enough/indepedent enough then go off and get on with your life and don't worry about him if that's how he feels.  He will regret saying it one day.    

Answer 5

it is not fair physical therapy is necessary for life, and your brother can dill with pimples. your dad telling he doesn't want you is just wrong. you are wright for thinking he is not being fair. i would hate my dad if he told me that. it is just important that you don't hurt your brother or anyone else. it is ok to be jealous of your brother though. anyone would be  

Answer 6

It depends on what this physical therapy is.  I can go to a spa and call it physical therapy.  

Answer 7

So how old are you, how old is your brother, where is your mom, and why do you need physical therapy?  What "things" has your dad given your brother, and what have you been denied?

One thing I've learned from Y!A is that two or three sentences never gets at the truth behind the question.  There is a LOT more to your story than just your dad giving your brother things.  Would you be willing to provide additional details?  

Answer 8

It is not fair of your father. However dealing these types of things is harder than most other situations. If you are over 18 I suggest you start finding ways to make yourself more independent and move out once you have a stable income. If your are below 18 not much you can do other than report it to child services. That also will cause problems however since, from what you said, it seems like hes been doing this a while and isn't a recent thing. There is no good way to deal with this situation, your father just seems to be a bad guy right now, but yes it is unfair.