Is it fair to cut back on s*x prior to the wedding?

Question

I have a fantastic S.life and feel that if we were to just save all the outrageous positions for our honeymoon that would make it more memorable. WHat do you think?? Married people only to reply please.

Answer 1

No, its not really fair to cut back.  If you want to hold off on trying new things until the honeymoon, then that should be fine.  But if you're in the middle of things, and he wants to try something, you can't say....WAIT! We need to save that for the honeymoon! LOL  I got married last July and we didn't try to cut back or anything (actually, as the wedding got closer we were more stressed, and s*x is a great stress reliever!)  As far as making it memorable, the thing that you'll remember most is that you are husband and wife and that makes it very exciting!  And of course, you'll want to bring some new lingerie that he's never seen so that'll help too.

Answer 2

No.  its a silly idea.  most couples don't even have s*x on their wedding night because they are too tired from the days events.

The fact that it is your wedding night - or 1st time after saying "i do" - will make it special if you cut back or not.

Answer 3

We didn't cut back and it didn't make the s*x on our wedding night or our honeymoon any less special.

Answer 4

Sure, cutting back now will have you better prepared for being married.

Answer 5

as we got closer to our wedding, like a few months before, we decided to try to stop having s*x until our wedding. it didn't completely work.. we ended up having s*x once.. but, yeah, i think a lot of couples try to stop or at least cut back on how often they have it to save it for the honeymoon

Answer 6

"Married people only to reply please." First off, dont ask it in the WEDDING section if you want people who are already married to only answer. Second, my fiance and i are going to stop having s*x about 3 months prior to the wedding so it will be that much better on our wedding night...

Answer 7

All's fair in love. Just make sure you both agree and neither is feeling pressured.

We went easy for a few days before, but that was only because I was 37 weeks pregnant and didn't want to risk falling into labour mid-ceremony!

Answer 8

I'm getting married in 3.5 months and we don't have any plans on cutting back. It may decrease  "naturally" for a little while because we just both started new jobs and moved into a new house into a new city so we're kinda stressed out (but incredibly happy at the same time lol go figure), but I personally don't believe it will make it better on the wedding night. I may not purposely have s*x the night before the wedding (plus family will be in town staying at our house lol), but that's about it.

I agree with other's who suggest trying something new (doesn't have to be all crazy or anything lol, you can buy a nice massage kit or something lol), or bringing lingerie... I'm aiming for something along those lines. I'm also convinced (although I haven't lived it yet) that it will be special no matter what because it will be your first time as husband and wife.

But if you and your fiance agree on saving for marriage, then go nuts lol. The main thing I think is that you both agree on what to do on that front. Some people have described here how they did that and liked it, it's just not for everyone as you can see because of the varied answers from different people.

Answer 9

If you are already making love why stop now.  In fact it will be better if you continue.  

There is so much stress when planning a wedding.  What better way to release it.  

Buy a book on different positions and try them out on your honeymoon.