Is it good to confess abt first love affair in detail to my wife?

Question

some foreplay only i did.i don't want to hide anything to her and i want to be faithful to my wife. i'm from South India. i feel very scared even she didn't expressed anything after i confessed.

Answer 1

maybe you should ask her if she wants to hear and tell she can stop you at anytime if she doesn't want to hear any more,

Answer 2

u can jst say that u had an affair...never tell everything in detail..she wont be able to accept the happy moments u both had..if i was the wife...i would not like to hear the details of my hus love story..rather i wud like not to no...there is nothing to feel that u hav to confess..it was b4 marriage rite..u dont hv to feel guilty as long as u love ur wife

Answer 3

yes...y not?????????

u just need to tell her in such a way that she feels its ok...

dont think about future

u dont knw wat can happen

n

if u hunk that u r dong the right thing than thatz perfectly fine...

dont b scared  

Answer 4

That was idiotic...No offense. But some things are better unsaid. You said you just wanted to be faithful. Your decision and making up your mind for that is more than enough. That means you are loyal to her. There is no need for a gesture of good will. You need only prove your faithfulness by your future actions. But telling her about the intimate moments you spent with another woman will only hurt her and hurt the relationship despite all of your good intentions. If you haven't yet told her please don't. If you have please spare her the details. And if you have told her everything, then let her be matured enough to forget it. Good luck.

Answer 5

she needs time to accept it i think but since o have confessed it yourself she'll forgive you give her sometime..express your love to her... good luck...

Answer 6

It gonna take a little while but she should be happy u r honest guy and

who don't wants to hide any thing from her.

Answer 7

Leave out the details, just out of respect for your wife.

Answer 8

Leave out the details, its a lot harder to forgive and forget when you know every little detail. that will be all she will think about when ever she is intimate with again.

Answer 9

don.t say everything n all pleasant moments you had with her.....

just say about her and make her feeel that u now love ur wife more than any one.......

Answer 10

you should tell ur wife... afterall she is ur life partner... n d base of any r'ship should b truth n trust...

tell her d truth...give her time... she wil trust you!!

dont go too much in detail.. leave unwantd details..

n pls dont forget to tell her that you truly n wholly luv only her n dats d reason y u'r confessing...

Answer 11

Yes, as soon as possible.

Answer 12

leave it.