Is it haram that i dont aggree with...

Question

Polygamy... i know what the reasons are but i still cant support it is this haram that i feel that way?

Answer 1

No. You are human and GOD gave you the right to freedom of speech and expression. You can have whatever opinion you want regarding whatever, it's your choice and your opinion.

Answer 2

Depends what you mean by don't agree.  

If simply you wouldn't be cool with it, then thats fine.  It doesn't say all men MUST have more than 1 wife.......just that its permissible to have up to 4 wives.  

But if you mean by you don't agree that ....this is completely wrong and it should never be allowed....you're essentially saying allah made a mistake....and that would be extremely haram.  

Answer 3

Islam doesn't support polygamy but it allows for it.

Quran say marry only one.

You have the right to refuse for your self but you can't refuse it for others because in many cultures, it is normal and even women agree with it because it prevent singleness. Not any woman accept it but many accept that. Better than living alone

Answer 4

Nope that's ok, you are entitled to your opinions. I dislike it too. I understand what it is meant for but I'm not sharing my husband with anyone. =)

Answer 5

not agree differs from not believing in it, it is not Haram sister.

Answer 6

no it's not haram ,it's kuffr coz u deny a QURANIC verse sis

Answer 7

yes sister, it is haram if you say, I believe in the Qur'aan to be the words of Allah, and to be completely intact, and believe every part of it, BUT, I don't agree with it(i.e. polygamy).  These two beliefs don't go togather.  This would be denying the verse of the Qur'aan, and therefore kufr as MASSI said.  

As the other brother said, it is making a halaal into haraam and haraam into halaal.  Very dangerous!

you dislike it? well that is often normal to dislike it, BUT if you don't have a choice, and fall into a polygamy marriage, then it cannot be a reason for divorce, because we seek each others' rights by Allah, and Allah gave men this right.  However, if you are given a choice, such as the prospect already has a wife, and you'd be 2nd, you can always choose not to.

Even the mother of the believers, and other women in that time had problems with each other, but they were sincere slaves of Allah, who feared Allah much.

Answer 8

well of course not!

it is totally not haram that u dont agree with Polygamy

Answer 9

First and foremost polygamy is not a must, it is an option only and it is an option that you can choose to agree with (by being a co-wife) or not (by not being a co-wife).  So it is up to you as to whether you would agree to be in such a marriage.  So its a choice.  There is a difference between choosing or not choosing something an denying it altogether.  I would not want such a marriage myself, however I see its value and do not deny its place in Islam.  There is nothing wrong with that.

Answer 10

If you state that it's not permissible then you have made haraam what Allaah has made Halaal and this is Kufr.

If you state that it's permissible but you wouldn't want to be in a polygamous marriage then that's a different matter all together.

But disagreeing with what Allaah has permitted and making it as Haraam if it is Halaal or Halaal if it is Haraam is a severely dangerous matter which does entail Kufr.  

Answer 11

i hate it!!!

Answer 12

Nope.

I don't agree with it either.

Answer 13

its not haram if you dont support this.