In an answer earlier, I regurgitated some information I learned in college - that it's a child's job to explore the world, to learn about textures and colors, cause and effect, etc. I know that as a child who was abused, a lot of my energy that SHOULD have been "spent" on these natural childhood tasks were pulled away to focus on survival. I also learned that my brain grew "wrong" in order to accommodate this unnatural focus. I wonder how it affects a child's development to have to focus on everyone else's needs above their own?
I mean no offense to adopters by this question. I am adopting myself, and I'm trying to understand what the effects will be on my children. Has there been any research done on this?
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