Is it importnant to you that you see yourself in your children?

Question

Is it importnant to you that you see yourself in your children?

Answer 1

Not at all, i can't wait to see who my children grow to be, separate from me.

Answer 2

not physically. I hope to pass on certain things like patience, respect, etc., but those things are learned, not inherited. I have one daughter of my own, and we just adopted a little boy who doesn't look a thing like me--I have no problem with it because he is a joy and looks aren't really that important. My mother has told me that it would bother her though, if her kids didn't look like her...I think that's odd, but oh well.

Answer 3

When I have kids, I just want them to be healthy. So, no. I actually plan to adopt....

Answer 4

No it is not. I am just happy to have her the way she is. I don't go out of my way to look for things that are the same.

Answer 5

When I see all her relatives in her character and features,  I'm always a little humbled and honoured that I get to care for my baby girl- she's beautiful and theirs too but I get to love on her most!