My fiance and I had only planned on inviting the attendants (including flower girl and ring bearer, both have a parent also in the wedding), our parents, and our officiant to the dinner. Is it appropriate to not invite their spouses? What about if some of them are from out of town?
We want the ceremony to be somewhat of a surprise for our guests and would prefer to keep the rehearsal dinner intimate so we can really talk to everyone and show how much we appreciate their help and support. However, we don't want to be rude.
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