Is it innapropriate for a single mom to french kiss and be overly affectionate w/ bf in front of 3yr child?

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Is it innapropriate for a single mom to french kiss and be overly affectionate w/ bf in front of 3yr child?

a friend of mine is dating a boy that she is in love with. I personally think the way she lays on top of or sometimes kisses on her boyfriend is not right to do in front of her child. The relationship is new and they are in the honeymoon--cant stop cuddling phaze. This man is not the father of her child. The little girl is becoming attached to the boyfriend and often cries when he leaves. He sometimes spends the night and sleeps in the bed with the MOM and the little girls bed is in the same room. Will the little girl witnessing all of this make her "fast" when she gets older? Is it unhealthy? I said something to her about it. she is a young mother and he is about 8 years older than her. I feel he should know better! Should i be concerned enough to speak with her again? she is my best friend and that is my God child.

Answer 1

YES! It's always inappropriate to "french-kiss" and or engage in sexual conduct in front of CHILDREN period !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

Wait for the kid to go sleep. Doing it with the kid watching is not healthy for both kid and adult.

Kid will learn and wonder but do the adult felt stress when the kid is watching?

If they do not even thought of this than they have no shame.

Answer 3

I think that is unhealthy. Children will always lead by example!

The child need to sleep in her own bed and in her own bedroom and until the child does the BF should not be sleeping in the same bedroom/bed as the mother!

THE BF SHOULD KNOW BETTER!!!! Ask the BF what is his intentions....and how long he plans to be with her and also would he take on the responablitiy of being a father to the child.

The mother also needs to understand that if the two of them break up the child will not understand what is going on.

it seems that the child is already growning attach to the BF and expects more and more.

Let her mother know your feelings and concerns. Ask her how she plans on dealing with the issue if child'shere to break up, and ask her if to her self in her childs shoes.

Answer 4

of course it's not appropriate! I understand that she's your best friend, and probably you should talk to her about this. After all, that girl is just 3! And age doesn't really matter. Displaying affection via 'French Kisses' in public won't be liked by ANYONE! It would have an adverse effect on the girl's mind and development. You are thinking on the right lines. And the girl's bed is in the same room as that of her mom and step dad! That is so not acceptable in this case. Call your friend and her boyfriend over to your place and then talk to them. And if you think you don't know her boyfriend well, then it's better you call ur friend alone, explain her, and then ask her to talk 2 her bf. As responsible adults, I'm sure they'll understand.  

Answer 5

Yes absolutly.

Answer 6

I say no, you are teaching your child how to properally kiss/make out and be a s**t all at the same time. *thumbs up* Good job!

Answer 7

i think so im a single mom with a 3 yr old child and i cant imagine doing this in front of him...confronting her though might only anger her and cause her to become defensive...i dont think there is anything you can really do though....its is unfortunate but you really have to be alot more aware of your actions as a single mom because your children often need so much more from you...and its too bad that many single moms put there boyfriends before their children....