Is it love or is it lust?

Question

ive been going out with my boyfriend for at least 7 months && ive fell in love wit him && we've been great but a month ago we've had s*x && my parents found out. but now its past && we havent seen each other for a month && since school is close to coming we've been talking alot. but now he's constantly wanting me to talk dirty && before we could say we missed eachother but now wen we do say it he comes up wit more saying he misses me && really needs me [sexual way]. idk if its lust or id he still loves me. if you need more info just ask me. k thanx.

Answer 1

well he might have just been playing you waiting to have or he might really love you.but most likely after you had s*x it was all lust and he wants to s*x all the time,if he starts talking about it all the time for the next month then you need to dump him

Answer 2

It's definitely a case of lust over love. He's coming right out and mentioning he needs s*x, wants to talk dirty, etc.  That ought to be a more than a clue.  He's had a taste, now he wants more.  If he would have just come out and said he loves you and it didn't matter about the s*x, that may have been different.  And now that your parents know about it, it makes it all that more a reason to just forget about seeing him anymore.

Answer 3

hes just in for the pleasure..sorry to say

Answer 4

Sounds like lust to me...

Answer 5

are you serious 7 months time and love? its lust man you gave it up and he wants more nothing else to it.  if you break up with him and he says things like "i need you" or "i love you to much to let you go" thats because of 2 things:  1)he doesnt want no one else to get what hes gotten and 2)he dont want to let go of his s*x joint (ive done it before believe me its lust)

Answer 6

s*x can be a part of a loving relationship, and an important part, but not the biggest part.  s*x should support a loving relationship, not the basis for it.  So if it is all he talks about, or something he is pushing for out of proportion to the rest of what the relationship should be, then there is a problem of some kind.  Guys can go nutty about s*x, so it doesn't automatically mean that he doesn't love you anymore, but it does mean he needs to bring things back into balance.  Good communication is the most important thing in keeping a relationship healthy, so you might as well start now.  Have a sit-down talk with him about what you need from him in the relationship, and listen to his responses, then judge his actions over time.  It may take more than one talk for it all to sink in.  If he loves you then things should level out appropriately; if he just loves "it" then I think that will become clear to you too.

Answer 7

he just wants you for the s*x................sorry but its the truth

you and him did it one time and all he wants is more, not more of you, more of you giving it up to him

Answer 8

love is long life forever then you meet single loving person\ and you go to sweet memory love .