Is it mean to feel good about revange ?

Question

well my friend would always make fun of my weight cause she was skinnyer with fast matblism them i lost all this weight now shes chuby and im the skinny one and she did make fun of me and she wouldent even go to the park with me cause she was scared people would say something about my weight is it wrong to rub it in her face and feel so good about it

Answer 1

It is not necessarily wrong, but just remember that the tables could one day turn again just like that.  Be the bigger person and show her compassion and treat her as she never treated you.  A little light teasing back now and then to maintain your own dignity/sanity is healthy and perhaps warranted, but just be cautious of how far you take it.

Answer 2

If thats how shallow you are then go for it..

Revenge is not a valid motive..It is a natural response..

Answer 3

Why is this question in the Military section?  

Answer 4

Look at it this way, whoever something bad is being done to it is wrong. You didn't like her making fun of you, and she doesn't like being made fun of by you. No one is right or wrong in this situation.

Why is this is the military section?

Answer 5

Ok, you're asking for an opinion. So don't rate me down just for giving mine. What I would do is shove it back in their face hardcore for the 1st week I realized the roles have switched. And then never mention it again. Sorta establish dominance and gain the satisfaction of "returning the favor".

I mean, what's the point of karma if she can make you feel like **** without any repercussions? Karma does work both ways ya know.

Have a friend who had pretty good luck with girls during High School, but once we finished some 6 years ago, he is seemingly destined to be single.  While I was plagued with long stble relationships. Yes, I rubbed it in.

Answer 6

It is, especially if the person is your friend.  She was wrong for making fun of you in the first place but two wrongs don't make a right.

By the way, this is the wrong board for this subject.