Is it more important for you to fit in with others? For others to fit in with you? Or for you to fit you?

Question

Is it more important for you to fit in with others? For others to fit in with you? Or for you to fit you?

Answer 1

It's important for you to fit yourself. The other ways can't bring you happiness without your acceptance of yourself.

Answer 2

all of them. when we are young, such as myself (im 16), its important to 'fit in' although i do not take my social status all that seriously. when we begin to fit ourselves, we start to fully understand ourselves and that is when we want others to fit in with us. in the end, we (well, many of us not all) accept ourselves to fit ourselves if that makes any sense.

just my opinion :)

Answer 3

I think we all want to fit in with some one, some where. I think as humans we all need to feel like we belong. I think the answer is both.

Answer 4

Depends on the point in my life and who I am dependent on at that point. Right now its with others.

Answer 5

It's more important to me to fit me, but to others, they would like me to fit in with them.  I've always been something of a loner, but I am not socially backward, so I can fit in and play well with others.  I understand that we all have different viewpoints, even those of us who agree on some things, so I can respect them for theirs if they respect me for mine.  We don't have to agree, and we don't have to confront each other either.  We DO have to respect ourselves first, if we are to show respect to others.  As always, in philosophy, this is just a personal opinion.  Have any kind of day you want.