Is it natural to fall in love with your sensei??

Question

I have started karate and I love it, but from the first moment I met my sensei, im infatuated! Is that natural?

Answer 1

its a problem if you are of the same s*x and you do jiu jitsu, i can see that as a huge problem but seeing as its karate than, perhaps not. Although if he's a 70 year old asian guy, than thats kinda weird, but hey we don't judge here. whatever floats your boat

Answer 2

If your sensei happens to be Pamella Anderson then yes it is ok to fall in love!

Answer 3

He or she is the alpha male or female.  The alphas always get the mates in the pack.  

Sad thing is, if the sensei is ethical, he or she will not date you as long as you are a student.  So if it is really love, you may want to train somewhere else.

Answer 4

A platonic love is very normal, in all of the classes I've taken we've all been like family, but not infatuation... Especially if your sensei is of the same s*x.

Answer 5

You see a man who's fit - focused (he's running a business) - successful (the business is still open) - outgoing and probably charming (b/c who would go to a boring sensei?).

So no - infatuation is not unexpected.

BUT - is he of good character? Does he use his school as his personal dating service?

Answer 6

Why would you have to ask this question? Does it really matter?

Is it right or wrong in your situation?

Answer 7

no its not especially if your sensei is the same s*x.

Answer 8

I am a Sensei and people fall deeply in love with me all the time.  So yes it is perfectly natural.

Answer 9

infatuation and falling in love are two completely different things.

bottom line...you think he's hot...or "hawwwt" as youngsters like to say lol

its ok to think he's hot/s**y whatever.

dont let it distract from your studies.