Is it necessary to discussed bot our couple'z past history life..??

Question

is it necessary to discussed bot our couple'z past history life..??

we have discussed it once.but i guess he still hide somthin..

i know im not supposed to discussed it agen wit him..but it botherz my mind a lot.. Also,we've plan to married in next december..thx

Answer 1

You don't really want to know, and he doesn't really want to tell you. What's past is past. The only time the past matters is if either of you are going to pass on stds or if either of you have kids from previous relationships. That stuff is important to know about!

Answer 2

not really is the past

Answer 3

it is somewhat important. Dont listen to these people on here saying its not important cuz its them who mainly have a bad past. Would you buy a used car without asking questions about the car???NO

Answer 4

I believe that the past is best left in the past. You can not gain anything form learning about each others past. I believe that you should only focus on the future. If you decide to learn about the past then this may cause future problems with feeling insecure. I dated a guy that use to talk about his ex partners, his ex was one of the reasons why we broke up. I prefer to go into a relationship fresh, not knowing about their past and building a relationship on our own terms (not past bad experiences). Best of luck to you

Answer 5

IT IS NOT NECESSARY IT BRINGS PROBLEMS.... DONT WORRY ABOUT IT TO MU.CH