Is it normal For females to cry after s*x?

Question

So im a 23 yr old female, and I seem to have a slight problem after s*x. It doesnt happen all the time, but atleast 1/3 of the time i ed up crying after s*x. Sometimes hysterically and sometimes just a few tear drops. Is this normal? If so, please explain.

Answer 1

I am a 39 year old female, and I have been crying after very good s*x since my teens.  I have only had s*x for love, and since that time, I have always equated the crying as a very positive release of emotion.  I am a person who is very in touch with her emotions, and not given to depression, and not due to previous trauma as has been suggested.  It seems to happen when I feel an intense closeness to my partner.  It doesn't frequently, just occasionally.  When it does, I am the most satisfied with the s*x.  It is the best experience in the world to me, but my latest partner had difficulty accepting my words as truth that this is truly an amazing experience, almost a spiritual one.  I feel my words cannot adequately convey this transcendent experience, but I hope they help.

Answer 2

really? what the ****? was it anal? just playin.... thats weird....

Answer 3

A lot women cry after vaginal s*x and even more so after anal s*x. This could be attributed to mass amounts of hormones that swirl around after s*x or that s*x tends to be a very emotional activity for women and men. I have heard tons and tons of accounts of women crying after s*x for many different reasons. It's pretty darn common and normal as long as you enjoy/want to have s*x and are not being forced. It's also normal to not understand why you cry after s*x.

Answer 4

s*x is a physical and psychological way of releasing stress. If crying is your way of expression after s*x there is nothing wrong with that!

Answer 5

My ex girlfriend did that too. At first I thought it was because of me, but later I found out it was because some females have overwhelming rushes of emotions after s*x. After a female climaxes, and everything is over, it throws off her emotional balance, and sometimes the resulting effect is crying for no reason.

It is somewhat common in females from the research I've done. After my ex started doing it, I had to find out for myself why it was happening.

I figured that if it was because of me, or something I was doing, why would she keep wanting more s*x? That's why I had to find out for myself.

Answer 6

That's weird, there was just another question like this. Apparently it's normal, just caused by high hormone levels and emotions during sexual activity.

Answer 7

This isn't, from my experience, "normal". As in, I don't think most women do, but that isn't to say it's something to worry about. I've experienced that, and I think that a lot of it has to do with the rush or hormones, the over-stimulation of the nerves, and how generally overwhelming the experience can be.

Do the tears just come for no apparent reason or do you feel bad about something? If you're crying more reactively, rather than about something or because you feel bad, then I don't think there's anything at all to worry about. But, if it's because you feel sad or otherwise wrong, you may want to talk to a doctor or therapist about it.

Answer 8

Do you know if there is a reason?

Did you enjoy the s*x?

Do you love your partner?

Do you actually feel sad?

If you don't feel sad then it might just be a mental or physical condition you have.  i would talk to a doctor or read into a medical book, don't ask random people, they probably will have no idea

if you are feeling sad i would suggest therapy to find out what is bugging you and how it is connected to your s*x life or to your partner

Answer 9

I would think the experience affects everyone differently.  Some women feel energetic, others tired, some feel very happy or very sad.  It's an emotional experience if it's with someone you really care about.  

I also think s*x is a release of emotions and when you're finished having s*x the rest of your emotions come out.  I think either you are with someone you really care about and you feel pretty intense afterwards or you are having problems in your life and the emotions may not hit you until after something like that.  I'm sorry...I know what I'm trying to say but I can't word it very well.  

Answer 10

is this when you have s*x with someone you are in love with?

not trying to be funny...but were you ever raped, or molested?  just trying to consider some things that may trigger your emotions

Answer 11

can you tell me why do you cry after s*x?

Answer 12

dunno how bad was the s*x?

Answer 13

Well when you cry what are you thinking about? Do you feel guilty about having the s*x, that could be why you cry. Or because during s*x your hormone levels change so all the intense hormones could cause crying.

Answer 14

yes it's normal, see here a similar question was asked not too long ago tonight

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

Answer 15

Haha.

The first answer made me laugh.

Was it with the same guy?

If so, maybe some thing about him you don't like?

Or maybe its your past?

I don't know, wish i could help?

Answer 16

heloo

why cry!! you have to be relax & cool coz' blood pressure ll' be down enjoy with your life..it's natural

good luck.