Is it normal for a 14yr old to still not be sure if ghosts and the "dark side" really exist?

Question

cuz sometimes i still get a little jumpy at scary pictures and like..i cant sleep at night etc...

i still sometimes think that if i think about "bad things" too much, like ghosts and bad bad things, then they will COME FOR ME?!

is it normal for a girl my age to still dwell on these thoughts sometimes?

how can i break out of it? can someone put some sensible words into my head so i wont need to be messed around like this anymore?

because i really dont like always thinkin that there is something behind me or something watching me v_v

thank you everyone

Answer 1

It's normal, most just don't admit it. A lot depends on your life experiences. Bad things do happen to good people and, if that's happened to you or people you know, you bet; you're going to have doubts about bad things happening to you.

One of my daughters saw her biological father accidentally remove a large portion of his head with a large caliber hand gun. Do you think there's a connection between that and the fact that, at age 13, she's still afraid of the dark?

Stuff happened to me too, as a kid. The goods news is that it gets better with time. But, if you dwell on it all the time or it doesn't get better, a good counselor would be a good idea.

Answer 2

Yes it's normal for young ladies to be a little jumpy at scary movies and such. Just remember that ghost can't and won't ever hurt you,because they are in search of the pass,and are actually called Air Nomads and they wander the earth bending the air currents of the world,and have 4 Temples,one at each corner of the globe,all hidden away atop mountain ranges in the northern kingdom and 3 are on remote islands around the world.

Answer 3

It's not normal to have these thoughts.  I'm really going out on a limb for you on this one.  You need to show a responsible adult my answers.  The solution might be too complex for you to understand.

Your body is reacting to something in your environment that got past your five senses. Here are a few possible things that may affect a person.

1. The silver filling in your teeth are more mercury and could make you sick slowly over time.

2. Stray EMF in your home can make you sick.

3. Lead in your drinking water pipes hazard.

4. Mold hazard

5. Radon hazard

6. Lastly please consider the results of "NASA's Clean Air Plant Study" that can improve your environment drastically.

"Common indoor plants may provide a valuable weapon in the fight against rising levels of indoor air pollution. Those plants in your office or home are not only decorative, but NASA scientists are finding them to be surprisingly useful in absorbing potentially harmful gases and cleaning the air inside modern buildings."

"NASA research has consistently shown that living, green and flowering plants can remove several toxic chemicals from the air in building interiors. You can use plants in your home or office to improve the quality of the air to make it a more pleasant place to live and work - where people feel better, perform better, any enjoy life more."

TOP 10 plants most effective in removing: formaldehyde, benzene, and carbon monoxide from the air.

Common Name - Scientific Name

Bamboo Palm - Chamaedorea Seifritzii

Chinese Evergreen - Aglaonema Modestum

English Ivy - Hedera Helix

Gerbera Daisy - Gerbera Jamesonii

Janet Craig - Dracaena "Janet Craig"

Marginata - Dracaena Marginata

Mass cane/Corn Plant - Dracaena Massangeana

Mother-in-Law's Tongue - Sansevieria Laurentii

Pot Mum - Chrysantheium morifolium

Peace Lily - Spathiphyllum "Mauna Loa"

Warneckii - Dracaena "Warneckii"

Answer 4

Its pretty normal.  Even some adults have those thoughts.  You need to just say to yourself that there are people out there that think lots worse and nothing gets them, nothing follows them and no one/nothing is watching them.