Is it normal for a man to dislike women for being the way they are?

Question

Is it normal for a man to dislike women? Is there something wrong with that?

Seeing how women are these days (from my experience), I believe so. If girls face gender discrimination, I really wouldn't care. I'm just so frustrated out because of women, and there had been times I thought of self-destruction.

Is it normal for a man to have alot resentment for women for being the way that they are? If men are misogynists/sexists, does that make them homosexual?

Answer 1

being a misogynist or sexist does not make you a homosexual. However, it does mean that you have either had some very bad experiences with women, or perhaps you were brought up to think like that. Maybe some things happened in your childhood that caused this resentment?

Do you want to be with a woman? If your not a homosexual, but dislike women so much, are you happy being alone?

You need to think about it because misogynists are - obviously - not looked upon kindly. (and thats the sugar coated version)

Answer 2

well, honestly, you're assuming that all women are a certain way. from personal experience i can say that i am not like other girls/women, in the same way that not all guys are the same. i can understand why you'd feel that way, sort of, though; girls can be very nasty. but you just have to believe that we're not all like that and give future women a chance. and no, that doesn't make you homosexual. being sexually attracted to men makes you homosexual. i hope all works out for you.

Answer 3

We're in a gynocentric society where men are frowned upon and punished for being men.  It's quite natural to feel some resentment from that.  We are guilty until proven innocent (especially in s*x based accusations), even though our country is founded on the opposite.  Most laws regarding marriage/child/family are stacked against men.

Self destruction is certainly not the answer, though.  Embrace being a man a pay no attention to the shaming tactics that women use.  You should feel no shame for doing what comes naturally to you.  Though, at this point, that may be twisted and obscured from years of brow beating and shaming.

Do some research on Tom Leykis.  That'll be a good start.  He's got some great info on defending yourself from the feminized society and how to keep your own values rather than getting feminized foolishness shoved down your throat.

Should a man hate women?  Definitely not.  They are what they are.  You just have to learn how to deal with them and you'll be quite happy with the results.  There are a few decent women out there.  Most are already taken, good luck finding any of the rest.  But, on your search, you should definitely have some fun.  The problem is not necessarily women, it's that men are letting them run rampant and not making them take responsibility for their mistakes and bad behavior.  Men are simply letting them get away with way too much.  Imagine if you let a child do whatever it wanted since the age of 4.  Similar outcome.  Spoiled, bratty, selfish, entitlement issues, no responsibility, no empathy, little to no morals.

Does it make you g*y that you're tired of all the BS?  Definitely not.

Answer 4

Interesting question!  Sadly, there are many misogynists among us today, and no it's highly unlikely that they are homosexual.

If you dislike women in general, then perhaps you should attempt to understand yourself and find out why you hate them.  

It was a big step to admit this to yourself.  Many don't.  Many will marry women and abuse them. Sadly, many women will marry them because those women were uneducated in watching which signs to watch for.

If you suspect you are homosexual though, perhaps you should focus on that instead.  Perhaps it's not a dislike for women after all, but rather "not interested" in women with a preferrence for men?

What is it that frustrates you most about women?  If you're taking their behavior far too personally, you should ask yourself why you "think of" self-destruction?  Could it be that you don't fall into the category of "possible husband material"?

I'm not being mean by asking these questions, rather I'm really curious.

Answer 5

No it's not the normal thing to be or the human race would have died out long ago!

Answer 6

I don't think so considering what many women are all about. I mean you have your women that have to prove they are dominate over the male species, this takes away from the natural order of things. Men have always been taught that they are the dominate force, that women needed them for protection and safety, but that just isn't the reality we live in anymore. I don't think your feelings mean you are homosexual or that your not normal, but I do think they need to be addressed, because it is very unhealthy for you to feel this resentment. Just because all men aren't dominate over all women doesn't mean you should feel worthless. I think a lot of men feel this way since women became such a driving force in this society. They can't handle taking orders from a women, it is degrading to them. Many women, including myself have had a hard time adapting to the new way, but I'd never consider becoming a L*****n. I enjoy compliments and the thought of a handsome man coming to my rescue, but that is just a fairytale, just like the illusion men hang onto that women can't think for or take care of themselves and need to be saved, it always has been and always will be. Very romantic though. ;-)

Answer 7

Im 24. I feel the same.Sometimes I cannot stand women, and even resent them. They want so much from us men, yet they are selfish and not willing to reciprocate. I liked someones comment about how they think its sexist if we ask them to do the dishes or help with the house, yet they wont do the yard work because its a 'mans job'.

I had a hard time dealing with my identity as a man because of these vicious types of women.

So men, I know that most of us are on here posting because we either are trying to learn eachother, or help others, and I am thankful for that, but just be yourself. Dont try to be like the men that the media has portrayed! Both women and men have fallen prey to this.. Its sad.. Be your individual.

Try not to resent. Use that energy to put fourth in yourself and to be the best man possible.. Rememer, some women are so insecure with themself that they laugh and snicker and ridicule men(and women) by degrading them because they arent the norm..(This may rub off on you if your not careful)

I dont think your homosexual, I think all men quetion it at some point in their lives, although they would never admit it. I know how you feel though, I used to almost think it would be easier if I were g*y because I hated women so much. You can overcome this. You have support. I wish you luck buddy..

Answer 8

What you're saying is that you have had bad experience with some women and because of that, you project their bad traits onto every woman out there.

Is this normal? In my opinion, no. I understand it as a way of letting your angry feelings out for a short period of time but misogynism is not healthy.

I think that you should get some couselling and avoid getting into relationships, at least for some time.

I don't know about homosexuality.

Answer 9

the modern western woman is conditioned to be selfish and cruel, it's not just men that suffer for it, look at the way they treat each other.

"because im worth it", "boys are stupid throw stones as them" they receive all sorts bad messages through the media day in day out. the fact that you resent them, just means that you are not buying it.

if they hate you, hate them back, if they say all men are rapists, tell them all women are objects etc.

but don't forget that they are not all bad.

if you feel sexually attracted to men you are homosexual or bisexual.

Answer 10

Personally, I don't think it's normal at all. I have never met a man like this and I think you have some very large and complex issues that you need to focus on working out. Posting here isn't going to help you.

Answer 11

Yes it is normal, rational and positve.

Answer 12

Get help, dude.  You have no sensitive side which will not be cool with women.  Do some research into how the 3rd world treats women and get an education.

Answer 13

No, Most all men hate women. They just use them for s*x.

Women nag, stress, cause anxiety, they make big deals out of simple problems, they vent their frustrations, they are neat freaks, they complain about every little detail.

They say men are sexists for wanting a woman to cook, but when its time to do the yard-work, women say its "a mans job."

They always want money, and spend money whenever they get it. They cannot be trusted with credit cards because overtime they add up and up on the debt, until its impossible to pay off.

They will go out of their way to make your life miserable, from smashing your car to hiding your wallet or car keys.

They usually complain when there isn't enough s*x, and when there is s*x they complain it isn't good enough. When you do give them enough s*x they complain you are a s*x maniac. Then when you leave them alone they cheat on you.

There are a million reasons why a man would dislike women, does that make you g*y? No. If you are attracted to women, sexually, you are not a homosexual. Doesn't mean you have to like them, or endure they silly mindless nonsense.

Answer 14

Maybe you are a "not practicing homosexual" like Johnny Wheelwright in "A Prayer for Owen Meany". He wasn't attracted to men, but he also wasn't attracted to women. Although he didn't hate them.

Answer 15

Haha, sure, there are times that I wish the whole female race would go underground and never see the light of the day.

As far as I know, I'm not homosexual but I've been in a relationship with a girl. And to be honest, she came to me with *every* single problem that bothered her (some of them were just stupid, she shouldn't have worried about them)

Worse thing, she never took my advice and kept moping. Eventually, after weeks of this, I decided to break it off. Her depression was making me depressed.

So yea, I think it's normal to hate women. They hate us too.