Is it normal for a man to have no friends at all? am I normal?

Question

I am now a college freshmen. Well lets say that I haven't adjusted to school life and social life yet, and I have almost finished my first term there. I always felt like an underdog like I am not worth being someone. And I never had real friends. I always felt that I am all alone in this world. So I visited the chapel always, always as in every time I am free from my studies. The first thing I would do is go to the chapel and sit there. I felt like staying inside there is more comfortable than anything in the world.

Answer 1

d**n dont be shy go and meet people at places

Answer 2

Honestly, there's nothing wrong with being introverted...unless you're unhappy.

Answer 3

i feel the same way

Answer 4

i am a freshmen in college to. my only friends are the people i work with and my girlfriend.

Answer 5

You should discuss this with a counselor, or if there is a priest or minister in the chapel, seek him out and talk to him.  It sounds like you have a problem about your self worth.  Remember that every one is worth something.  Get over your feelings of inferiority by getting counseling.  Try to make friends, one at a time.  You may find people are not going to turn their back on you.

Answer 6

you need to try to make some friends its good to socialize  

Answer 7

its because you're in the presence of the Lord....jesus was always on the side of the underdog....he WAS an underdog, wasn't he? he's friend to the friendless, hope for the hopeless, strength to the weary...he's everything we aren't. he's el shaddai, the God who makes up for human weakness. he completes us :]

what IS normal? everyone's different...how can we compare ourselves to others when everyone is so unique? and you ARE worth something; you're worth a lot. jesus found you worth dying on the cross for; don't ever think you aren't worth anything. you're worth far more than you think.

Answer 8

its normal -100%

im not normal at all.

im 22 and a senior in my college -i have no friends at all.

each year i attend school other freshmans think im a freshman like them whos shy and nervous talking to someone. but wen they c me going to all the senior classes they get confused. IMAO!!!

plus i attened to most expensive college in new york..ex.(old westbuty)

now im not normal at all!!!!

Answer 9

Wow man i really feal for you. and i mean that sincerely  

Answer 10

I don't think it's abnormal..& I think there are many like you.  We live in a world of chaos.  It's no wonder there is lonliness.  But going to the chapel seems to comfort you & there's nothing wrong with that friend. You're a good person who is trying to better himself, living a good life, & being good to others (better than normal). Take care.

Answer 11

i suggest playing a game like world of warcraft always can make friends in a video game ..