Is it normal for a man to prefer to m********e rather than have s*x with his fiance? What causes that?

Question

What would cause a man to suddenly stop having s*x with his fiance and masterbating instead? I really don't understand it because obviously he's horny if he's jerking off. Does it mean he isn't attracted to her anymore? Is cheating? Is having anxiety because of the wedding?

I don't get it because everything else is normal in the couple's relationship, like they laugh, talk and have a great time together.

The woman even cooks dinner for the man every night, washes and irons his clothes, cleans up for him and tries to buy him a little something now and then to make him feel special (like he had a bad day at work, so she bought some margarita mix [his favorite] and made drinks).

So why does he prefer to pleasure himself instead of having s*x with her?

Answer 1

Masturbating is perfectly normal and healthy, it's not cheating.  You can't cheat with yourself.  Chicks always have a hard time dealing with it.  Boo-hoo he's CHEATING on me because he jerks off.

You want the real deal solution to your problem?

Tell him you want to do it with him or watch him do it or better yet help him do it.  My gf does this with me all the time, it's awesome.

He gets the best of both worlds.  You should at least just try it out.

Answer 2

because you know exactly what you like. how fast, how hard... etc

Answer 3

cheating

Answer 4

i would say cheating you should tell her

Answer 5

because we know what we want. we are horny animals, the amount of s*x that satisfies the average woman isn't anywhere near enough for the average guy (or maybe it's just me?). but no s*x at ALL? i don't know about that... there could be tons of reasons, i can't have an answer without knowing more. maybe he's mad at her for some reason??

Answer 6

SHES UGLY.  

Answer 7

I don't know, why do you do it?