Is it normal for a relationship?

Question

Me n my bf is already going out for 5 months.We are also both in college, same level and school. Both of us are first timer in a relationship. I like him and he admitted that he likes me, too. When we're together, we are always having fun but these past few days, we always have so many arguments. After one argument is settled, another argument comes in. I'm really tired of these so many arguments. When we're hanging out together, all we did is argue. Is it normal for a relationship?

Answer 1

Yes bickering is normal. name calling and hitting is not.

Arguing  means you are getting comfortable and expressing your opinions. Now in my opinion the only good arguments are when you can walk away  cool off take time and then latter talk like rational people about the issues without getting to heated.

Answer 2

most likely just a stage.

Answer 3

Yes it is normal, since you are in a relationship for the first time, and now that 5 months have gone through, a new wave of expectations from each other and for each other will rise. IT is ok, but you have to hold on really good during this time, don't give up and be very very patient, you will surpass it.

However, this is the make or break time, so be careful and BEst of Luck!

Answer 4

Every argument is good for a relation ship to be better, only an argument will explain perfectly what each other feel and even after argument if you are together then this is a positive sign, but one thing you must be careful of is you need to perfectly be adjusting with all the facts and never try to repeat them.

Answer 5

When you first enter a relationship, there is kind of an 'infatuation' stage, where everything seems super-wonderful, the person you are with seems perfect, etc etc. After a few months or so you get to know each other better, some of the initial novelty wears off, and you start to notice your differences/ your partners weaknesses (and he yours!) This is when arguments can start to happen. It is also when the relationship can more forward to a more mature level of understanding and committment- but be prepared to do the hard work involved in really getting to know and understand each other without the rosy glow that was over everything in the beginning.

Arguments are normal, it's how you handle differences that make or break the relationship. Keep respect at the centre of the relationship, always try to understand where the other person is coming from, communicate honestly (but be gentle about it!) You don't say what the arguments are about- if they are caused by you having totally different views on important things then it could be harder to resolve, but almost all relationships can be healthy and happy if both partners are committed to making it work and loving and respecting the other :)

Good luck!  

Answer 6

It is normal in a relationship. You two are still figuring each other out and what pushes each other's buttons. Just make sure you are truly listening to each other and actually solving your problems and not just putting them aside. Anothe thing, is when you dohave fights, never bring up old sh*t that you already solved because it just doesn't work out when you do. Good luck to you both.  

Answer 7

just take some time off, figure out if you're happier when you're not arguing, but not together, or with each other but arguing.

or maybe he just likes to argue for the make-up s*x. some guys (and girls) are like that.

Answer 8

It is very normal and healthy. But if it continues for days maybe weeks, that's when its not normal. It could be that you guys are getting all the arguements over with so you can be happy when it's done =]

Answer 9

No,if it's not working out now,think what it's gonna be like when you both get used to each other....oh man i don't know if you lost your virginity to him...but if you did that can cause some kind of weird attachment that isn't always healthy