Is it normal for an 11 ear old boy wants to have s*x?

Question

Is it normal for an 11 ear old boy wants to have s*x?

Answer 1

No it is not, and should be discouraged. That's too young for him to physically or mentally go through. You need to talk to him about where this is coming from and from who this is coming from. Puberty is the biological stage that is required for a boy or girl to be physically and mentally ready to want to reproduce. Before this stage hits, he is still a boy, not a adolescent. 11 could be early puberty, but barely. If it is early puberty, then tell him all the risks and that he should wait a few more years for intercourse. Masturbation is what he needs to go through first to explore himself and his own feelings. Maybe he's confusing wanting to have s*x with more frequent and lasting erections. Ask him if he masturbates and encourage him to stick with that for now. If it is not early puberty(no signs like body or pubic hair, voice or skin changes, etc) Then having sexual intercourse that young can hurt him emotionally for life. It is equivalent to child molestation. He will not be able to process the emotions.

Answer 2

Yes, of course.  That's puberty.  

It's not normal however for an 11-year-old boy to HAVE s*x.

Wanting s*x and actually having s*x are different things.

It's totally normal for boys 10+ to think about, and want to have s*x.  That's what's supposed to happen.

Answer 3

Quite normal for them to have s*x...they are entering puberty...however wanting and having are two different things...he isn't OLD enough mature enough to have s*x at age 11...his hormones will settle down in a couple of years...

Answer 4

Puberty is setting in, which brings about changes in hormones and lots of curiosity.  But there is more to having s*x than the actual pleasurable act.  There is an emotional aspect, especially on the girl's side.  There is a risk of impregnating the girl, even if you use birth control.  Obviously at 11 you don't want that to happen.  There are also always risks of different STDs.

Tempting though it may be, it is best to wait until you are older before you actually perform the act with another person.  Be emotionally ready to deal with any of the consequences, good and bad.

Answer 5

A lot of changes happen as you grow up, especially as you reach puberty (say: pyoo-bur-tee), the name for the time when your body begins to develop and change. Girls start developing b*****s and get their periods — signs they are growing into women. But how do boys know they are growing into men? Let's find out.

For a guy, there isn't just one event or sign that you're growing up. There are lots of them, including your body growing bigger, your voice changing, and hair sprouting everywhere. Most boys begin puberty between the ages of 9 and 14. But keep in mind that puberty starts when a boy's body is ready, and everyone grows at his own pace.

Here are some of the questions boys have.

Why Are Girls Taller Than Me?

You might have noticed that some of the girls you know are taller than the boys. But you've probably noticed that out of the adults you know, most of the men are taller than the women. What's going on?

Well, girls get a head start on puberty — and growing taller — because they usually start these changes between the ages of 8 and 13. Most boys, on the other hand, don't begin until between the ages of 9 and 14. So that's why girls are often taller than boys during that time.

Most boys may catch up — and even grow taller than girls. But it's also important to remember that your genetics play a role in height. So if your mom and dad are tall, you're more likely to be tall. And if your mom and dad are kind of short, you may be short, too. But nothing is definite.

You have to wait and see how it turns out, but you can also talk to a doctor if you're concerned. Remember — not every adult male is tall. Many men who are considered "short" have gone on to have careers in the movies, the military, and even professional basketball!

There aren't any exercises or magic pills to make you grow tall. But by being active and eating nutritious foods, you're helping your body grow up healthy, just the way it should.

When Will I Get Muscles?

During puberty, some boys might become worried about their bodies after seeing what some of their friends look like. For instance, lots of boys are concerned about their muscles. You may have already noticed some boys starting to get chest muscles (called the pectoralis muscles or pecs for short). Others may have broad shoulders (the deltoids, or delts for short). Other boys might still be slimmer and smaller.

Remember that puberty happens on its own schedule, so there's no rushing it if you're a little slower to develop muscles. Maybe you've considered lifting weights to help yourself get bigger. It's important to know that if you haven't quite reached puberty, this will tone your muscles, but it won't build up any muscles yet. Eating nutritious food and being active (like riding your bike, swimming, and playing sports) will help you be a kid who's strong and fit. In time, you'll reach puberty and you can start building your muscles, too.

If you decide to try lifting weights, first let your doctor know you are interested. He or she may tell you to hold off on weightlifting for a bit or give you some advice on how to start. If your doctor discourages weightlifting, try some other ways to work out. Resistance bands, which are like big rubber bands, are a great way to help build your strength without putting too much strain on your muscles.

If your doctor recommends weightlifting, here are some tips:

    * Have a qualified coach or trainer supervise you. It's smart to have somebody show you the proper way to lift weights. This will help you gain strength and prevent injury.

    * Use lighter weights. Your coach or trainer can recommend the right amount. Lifting heavy weights can cause injuries and then you'll have to wait until you recover before you can work out again.

    * Do repetitions. It's better to lift a smaller amount of weight a bunch of times than to try to lift a heavy weight once or twice.

    * Rest. Let your body have a break at least every other day.

Do I Think About Girls Too Much or Not Enough?

There is this girl who lives in your neighborhood and you see her playing with her friends every afternoon when school is done. You get really hot and your palms sweat when she says "hi" to you. That night you go to bed and before you sleep, you have one last thought about her. Every day for the next few weeks you keep thinking about her. You might be wondering, "Why do I feel this way?" You just may have a crush.

Or perhaps your friend keeps talking about this one girl he thinks is so pretty. He goes on and on about how she tells funny jokes. He also tells you that he likes her. You think, "Why don't I feel or talk this way about a girl — am I supposed to?"

Every boy has his own likes and dislikes. And during puberty, some boys are very friendly with girls and others might be nervous about talking to girls. Thinking about someone you like is a normal process of puberty. And if you feel like you don't like any girls, that's fine, too. Eventually, you may find someone who makes you feel giddy inside. Only time will tell.

So why do you feel this way? The hormones in your body are becoming more active. As a result, you're starting to have more feelings. These feelings can confuse you and may leave you scared. This is natural because you are going through a new phase in your life.

Talking with a friend or an older person like your brother or sister might help you be less confused. Older people sometimes have more experience than you, so they can be good people to go to for advice.

What's Up With Body Hair?

Body hair really gets going during puberty. Some boys will start to notice hair growing on their face around the chin, on the cheeks, and above the lip. Also, hair grows on the chest, the armpits, and even down there in the pubic region. Remember that there's nothing to worry about because hair is just one of the body's many ways of telling you that you are on your way to manhood.

You're growing hair in new places because hormones are telling your body that it is ready to change. Some of the hormones that trigger this new hair growth come from your adrenal glands. Other hormones come from your pituitary (say: puh-too-uh-ter-ee) gland (a pea-shaped gland located at the bottom of your brain). These pituitary hormones travel through your bloodstream and make your testicles ("balls") grow bigger and start to release another hormone called testosterone that also helps make your body start sprouting hair in your pubic area, under your arms, and on your face.

Boys don't really need to do anything about this new hair that's growing. Later, when you're a teen, and the hair gets thick enough on your face, you may want to talk with your parents about shaving.

Do I Smell?

You probably know what sweat is, but did you know that it's also called perspiration (say: pur-spuh-ray-shun)? How does it happen? Perspiration comes out of your skin through tiny holes called pores when your body gets hot.

Your body likes a temperature that is 98.6° Fahrenheit (37° Celsius). If you get hotter than that, your body doesn't like it, so then your body sweats. The sweat comes out of the skin, then evaporates (this means it turns from a liquid to a vapor) into the air, which cools you down. Sometimes this sweat or wetness can be smelly and create body odor (sometimes called BO). During puberty, your hormones are working all the time, which explains why you sweat a lot and, well, sometimes smell.

What makes it smelly? The sweat is made almost completely of water, with tiny amounts of other chemicals like ammonia (say: uh-mow-nyuh), urea (say: yoo-ree-uh), salts, and sugar. (Ammonia and urea are left over when your body breaks down protein.) Sweat by itself is not really smelly, but when it comes in contact with the bacteria on your skin (which everyone has) it becomes smelly.

But how can you keep yourself from being all sweaty and smelly? First, you can shower or bathe regularly, especially after playing sports or sweating a lot, like on a hot day. You can also use deodorant under your arms.

Deodorant comes in many good-smelling scents or you can use one that's unscented. Some deodorants come in a white stick that you can twist up. Lots of people put this on after showering or bathing before they put their clothes on. Otherwise, the white stick deodorants can leave white marks on your clothes. You can also choose a deodorant that's clear instead of white.

You can decide to wear a deodorant (which helps stops the smell) or a deodorant/antiperspirant (which helps stops the smell and the sweat). If you find these products aren't working for you, talk with your doctor.

What About Erections?

An erection is what happens when your p***s fills up with blood and hardens. The p***s will become bigger and stand out from the body. Boys will start to notice erections occurring more often when they reach puberty. And they're perfectly normal.

An erection can happen at any time. You can get many in one day or none at all. It depends on your age, sexual maturity, level of activity, and even the amount of sleep you get.

An erection can happen even when you're sleeping. Sometimes you might wake up and your underwear or bed is wet. You may worry that this means you wet your bed like when you were little, but chances are you had a nocturnal emission, or "wet dream." A wet dream is when s***n (the fluid containing sperm) is discharged from the p***s while a boy is asleep. s***n is released through the urethra — the same tube that urine (pee) comes out of. This is called ejaculation.

Wet dreams occur when a boy's body starts making more testosterone. This change for boys is little bit like  

Answer 6

NO, It's not....

Answer 7

im gonna say, thoughts are ok but actually doing it is very not ok and illegal. But yes it is normal i used to have those thoughts...

Answer 8

Some of them do because thats when they start seeing girls in a new way. I know somebody who is 12 ans wants to. I hope this helped.

-Tara

Answer 9

Well if he's going through puberty,when you go through puberty,you may be interested in opposite s*x.

Answer 10

NOOOO! what has this kid been watching or what type of an environment does this kid live in?

Answer 11

WELL YOUR TOO YOUNG BUT IF YOU DO BE CAREFUL THERES A LOT OF INFECTIONS OUT THERE AND IN CASE YOU DO USE A CONDOM... LEARN HOW TO DO IT THE RIGHT WAY...

Answer 12

ummm let me think.........NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO...

Answer 13

Can be, either because he's entering puberty and his hormones are kicking in big time, or because he's been exposed to s*x play and wants more of the same.

Wanting to and doing it are two different things, of course.  Or should be.