Is it normal for him to always want to do this to me?

Question

This guy has wanted me to be his girlfriend for some time now. We both like eachother and always fool around when we are together. Whenever we make out, he always fingers me. I think he gets off from doing it and one time he was like "i love being inside of you, baby." i know he wants to have s*x with me and he is always all over me, but is it normal for him to finger me and give oral whenever he gets the chance? i always thought guys really didn't get anything from it. he's 20 by the way.

Answer 1

Is it normal. Yes.

But I want you to understand what is going on here.... in his mind, he is getting you hot. And when you get hot enough, the clothes will be gone and you will be having intercourse.

When he said 'I love being inside of you' he was hoping you would offer to let him put his p***s in there.

Regardless of whether or not he wants to be your boyfriend, he is trying to score. Nothing more. Make sure that before you say yes, you understand that for a guy, s*x does NOT mean love and vice versa. s*x is recreation for guys. Nothing more.  

If s*x is out of the question with this guy. If you aren't sure. If you are underage or just not ready, tell him to stop it. If you say "no' make sure it sticks.

Answer 2

That's not true some guys get excited from it.  

Answer 3

its just the thought of pleasing you that gets him off. its totally normal

Answer 4

guys can get a lot from it and if it feels good who cares let him do it all the time!

Answer 5

He does this because you like it...if you didn't you wouldn't let him do this to you .  Just say NO..ever hear of that?

Answer 6

yes its normal

Answer 7

He just enjoys the intimacy:that's it.

And it is a prelude to get you in the sack of course.

But if he fingers you and gives you oral:do you protest?

I guess not:and what do you do in return?

Nothing?

Just lay there and enjoy?Not nice.

Space

Answer 8

He gets turned on by pleasing you! Nothing wrong with that at all! In fact, if more guys were more concerned about making sure their partner is pleased rather then themselves, their partners would be more inclined to please them! If you enjoy what he does to you, then I suggest you reciprocate accordingly! This will encourage him to please you even more!

Answer 9

i love the taste of a sweet v****a, nothing is better

Answer 10

Well, you know what they call a man that always wants to please his partner, don't you ?   A "treasure".

Answer 11

some of us guys really do get quite turned on by pleasuring a woman.

as far as oral and fingering, I do it every chance I get too !!

one day youll wish you had someone that did ! lol  

Answer 12

it still turns us on alot

Answer 13

Yea, thats pretty much normal. Is he making you happy?