Is it normal for maturbation to feel better when others do it?

Question

whenever i m********e it takes ages for me to reach an o****m. but when someone else does it to me i have an o****m within like 30 seconds or faster. it feels great too. is that normal, or am i not doing it properly? how can i make it happen quicker when i do it myself?

Answer 1

sometimes it does

Answer 2

The excitement, added pleasure and enjoyment when someone else does it is based in the act itself.  You are more excited because someone else, who is at least a friend, is going to do it for you.  That is normal, completely normal.  That other person being there also adds joy.

When I was young one particular friend of mine loved to have me give him h**d.  In all the years that he had me do it 2 or 3 times a week (about 6), he never took longer than two minutes to sh**t in my mouth -- and often much less -- but when he masturbated, it took him 20 minutes.  He used to love it because it felt so good and because he sh*t faster,and I loved it because it gave me a feeling of having really given him pleasure and enjoyed it.

Whoever is doing it to you -- enjoy it -- don't sweat it, just let it happen.  You feel great and it makes him or her feel wonderful too -- trust me.

Kindest thoughts,

Hermes

Answer 3

You probably find it more exciting for someone to do it to you, so you come quicker.  This is normal, nothing to worry about.  It's actually good that you don't come right away when you play with yourself, because you don't want to get in the habit of coming right away all the time.  It's more fun if you can make it last when you're with a partner.

Answer 4

there is a girl on your frickin p***s der....

no seriously

it feels better because you have no control over motion and therefore things are more unexpected.

Answer 5

The thing is it isn't alwas about doinig it right. It is about if you are aroused while doing it. Sure I could sit there all day but nothing is going to happen if I am not aroused. It just means you find it very arousing when someone else does it for you.  

Answer 6

It always feels better when some one does it for you, I love it when someone jerks me off, all I have to do is concentrate on the sensations.

If you wanna get yourself off faster try using lube.

You can also grab your p***s by the shaft and rub the head of your p***s into the palm of your other hand.  Just rub it around in circles  in the palm of your other hand, it really sends chills down a guys spine.

The more pressure you use the more awesome it feels.

Answer 7

how many times do you m********e, cause you can almost get bored of urself haha but obviously ull be more arroused when its someone else doing it, its more exciting, and no your not doing it wrong cause there is no wrong way

Answer 8

That's the way it's supposed to be.  s*x is supposed to be shared.  It's just a natural response to your hormones, which are trying to get you to have s*x and make babies, nature's way of insuring the survival of the species, whether we know what we're doing or not.  s*x nearly always feels infinitely better with a partner, no matter what you're doing.  Because the physical feeling, it's feels good to trust someone by giving them control over your s*x drive and when they give you control over theirs.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

you are normal

Answer 11

No you right, its alot better when someone else is doing it for you, turned me on reading it =] lol, keep letting your gf/ bf do it for you!!

and if you want it quicker yourself your gonna have to get turned on better, get watching p**n at same time, should do the trick.