I have been together with my husband for 8 years (including 3 years of marriage) now but I'm feeling more and more lonely as days go by. Back when we were dating, I never feel that he would be a bad choice and I was pretty happy back then. We are living under one roof with just the 2 of us where we should feel closer to each other with no restrictions. Despite so, I felt more lonely living with him. Back to the days when we were dating, we were always quite close. But now he simply just kiss me before he go to work and just before he go to bed. Sometimes he dont even speak more than 3 sentences to me in a day and he would be just doing his stuffs. I spoke to him many times that I felt being neglected by him but he just brush it aside with other excuses. Despite so, I always try to keep up with my part by showing him lots of affection but Im getting tired trying my best but he never try to do anything. At our age (Im 23, he's 30), our relationship shouldnt be so cold. Affection had gone down and we were not as intimate as before. Im still a young woman, I have feelings and needs, is it even normal the way this marriage is going? Im feeling trapped thinking that I gave up so many things when I married him but end up I yearn for the time when I was single. We will be holding our customary wedding in 4 months' time but im getting uncertain. Could anyone in the same situation give me any advice?
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